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Step 1
Build a social network of colleagues, friends and classmates to meet for weekly coffee, Sunday service or study sessions. Agree to meet regularly to establish a significant rapport and relationship. Encourage others by finding new and interesting ways to connect. This commitment will communicate your appreciation for the group and the relationships that are being formed.
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Step 2
Use the social network as a springboard for other social events. Attend university events that allow attendees to participate in forums or panel discussions, engage with other attendees and actively build relationships within a social dynamic. Consider praise and worship service clubs, Christian drama groups and sports clubs. These will allow you to meet and interact with other single Christians in a fun, exciting and dynamic environment.
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Step 3
Find a person who shares a similar perspective on dating and relationships. Allow yourself the time to experience various exchanges in a variety of settings to determine if she is the right romantic partner. Rather than ask questions, observe behaviors, such as her manner of speech, personality and commitment to faith. If these characteristics are not present in her daily behavior, consider widening your options and pursuing a potential romantic partner with a stronger match.
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Step 4
Be open and honest. Discuss core values and beliefs at the start of the relationship to affirm a strong bond. Agree why key beliefs should be incorporated into the relationship. Focus on how these mores allow you both to maintain strong faith and act in accordance with the Bible. For example, discuss why it is important to incorporate prayer, church and faith into the fabric of the relationship.
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Step 5
Be open to finding love. Dating is a process that requires honesty, skill and a little luck. Prepare to work hard, and remember to take your time as you begin your journey toward love.
