Things You'll Need:
- to find someone that is a complement in your life
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Step 1
DO NOT LET SOMEONE CHOSE YOU
When looking for a mate, it can be easy to become enchanted by the attention of someone of the opposite sex. Try the voice of reason and immediately ask yourself if you are attracted to this person because they are attracted to you or if you are ideally attracted to them. -
Step 2
CROSS REFERENCE YOUR ATTRACTION
If the new potential mate reminds you a lot of a previous person you dated that you ended a relationship with, the chances are that this new potential lover has many of the same qualities that don't work for you. -
Step 3
LOOK FOR CHARACTERISTICS IN a MAN OR WOMAN THAT COMPLEMENT YOUR OWN
A good choose for a mate is one that will add to your goals and personality. -
Step 4
FIND A PERSON THAT WILL NOT BE DEMANDING
It is important that when you are one with someone that you still can be yourself. Look for tips that will let you know you can be dependent on the person and still hold onto your own independence. -
Step 5
KEEP IN MIND THE LAWS OF ATTRACTION
If you think about what you desire and demand to the universe of your needs, a mate will come to you by the theory of what you believe you will achieve. -
Step 6
ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR LIKES AND DISLIKES WHEN CHOOSING a MATE
When looking for a mate, if you keep in mind what is important to you in a relationship, you will begin to chose people to involve yourself with that have potentials for you and them to be in strong, long and monogamous unions.
Comments
WesleyJ said
on 10/30/2008 Great article; in addition communication and compromise are keys to finding a mate. As no one will fully understand you 100% of the time, communication is important. Compromise is crucial, otherwise it would just be fight fight fight. Sometimes a small amount of sacrifice must be made for the greater happiness.
all in all..Absolutely 5 stars!
vikki9 said
on 10/30/2008 ... and don't compromise.
Thank you - good information.
MotherDove said
on 10/30/2008 Excellent advice. Thinking beyond the surface and beyond the moment would lower the numbers in divorce court.
Susang6 said
on 10/29/2008 Its also good if you are the same faith, and someone who is easy going and gets along with your family! Great article, all good tips to follow when finding a mate.
deepthinkin said
on 10/29/2008 If only more young people would think about these things I think there would be fewer early marriages and subsequent breakups. I think I would also add - Don't think you can mold or change someone into someone you want. There's a lot of that going around too. Good work!