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How to Be happy in your relationship when your man cannot satisfy you

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By redvelvet
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Whew! This is a very sensitive subject to discuss. I know that sometimes we say to men 'it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean'. Well that is true but sometimes it's also a contradiction. Yes, size doesn't always matter and Yes, size does matter. I'm speaking from a 0.3% population that includes me, myself and I. Other women can tell you men what they think but my personal opinion is YES it matters. For the simple fact that the motion in the ocean isn't fulfilling enough to me at the most all I can ask during the encounter is 'do it harder'. I couldn't possibly ask go deeper when you've already reached as far into the surface as possible. In order to reach my climax all of my walls have to be penetrated. My G-Spot needs to be a target and a goal to be stimulated. As women we have this secret room that cannot be reached by all men. It takes a certain kind of man that can even hit the door or push it open for that matter. So, below are just a few ways to finding happiness in your relationship if your man just can't seem to please you.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Being in a loving relationship with someone is an awesome experience, but when it comes to being sexually satisfied your mood becomes depressing and naturally horny as hell. If your man cannot please you; you always need to start with 4-play. That would mean by the time he enters you, you would be almost halfway there.

  2. Step 2

    If your in love and of course the only flaw within your relationship is the lack of sexual stimulation even while during an encounter because he wants to long stroke he keeps falling out; which could be pretty annoying for us women. Be honest with him and this DOES NOT mean to 'let him have it' by telling him that he is way too small. This simply means use the following example in step 3:

  3. Step 3

    *** Say for example you're at a phone booth and need to make a long distance call. You only have one quarter for a local call and not 50cents required to make a long distance call. * If you continue to make long distance calls with just 25cents then the call will continue to drop. So the moral of the story is 'stick to making local calls because apparently you do not have enough money. (simple as that)

  4. Step 4

    Believe me the above example has worked tremendously because not only will he understand the moral of the story but he'll also appreciate that you told him this way. TRUST ME! It sounds way better than saying you have a tiny ****. (TRUST ME)

  5. Step 5

    If you never used toys before and you love him then now is the time to start introducing him to your new friends. Believe me this will heighten your sex life tremendously. The two of you wont be able to get enough of each other.

  6. Step 6

    Sometimes we are better off not letting our sexual fantasies stand in the way of our happiness and who we love even if they aren't physically equipped to take care of our needs. If you love him and want to be with him then there is always away to work out these kinks. If you don't love him and love sex more then you will frequently indulge with other sex partners in order to stay content in your current relationship. As the saying goes 'once a cheater, always a cheater'.

Tips & Warnings
  • If you know that sex plays a major role in your relationship then don't settle for less or else in the end all you will do is hurt your partner by cheating.
  • Satisfy yourself, don't make sex the reason for you existing. If you have a partner that isn't fulfilling your needs then teach them how instead of making them feel bad.
  • Peace and blessings...
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