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Step 1
OneSend her flowers - all kinds of flowers: orchids, lilies, tulips, sunflowers, daisies, and of course roses. Send them to her at work. Send them to the home of a friend or family member she's visiting out of town. Send them to her hotel room when she's traveling on business or to your hotel room when the two of you are vacationing. Send them to her when you have to travel on business. Have them delivered the same day you leave, and tell her how you began missing her before your plane even landed.
And no matter how lame or commercialized you think Valentine's Day is, send her flowers on Valentine's Day. Women love to be adored, and they love being adored in ways that publicly demonstrate just how much they are adored. -
Step 2
TwoTell her she is beautiful - at just the right time. First thing in the morning, even though you may feel it overwhelmingly, is not the right time. The right time is just as she's turning away from the mirror, right after putting on her lipstick. She has dressed for the occasion (whether it's a day at the office or a romantic evening with you), spent extra time on her hair, and applied her makeup meticulously.
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Step 3
ThreeMake love to her - sometimes passionately, sometimes sweetly. Make love to her more often than you send flowers, and when you can't make love, let her know that you desire her.
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Step 4
FourWake her up to 'At Last' by Etta James. This is possibly the single most romantic act in the modern history of love. Without uttering a single word, you will let her know how much you love her and how grateful you are to have found her.
