Things You'll Need:
- Confidence, positive attitude, fun spirit
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Step 1
Do you have trouble attracting men? Have you ever seen women not so attractive but they always have a man. Do you want to know why? It is because they are happy and have self confidence. Men are drawn to happiness and a woman that loves herself. First things first, one must look the part. As ladies we have to keep ourselves up from head to toe. Hair must be in place consisting of a fresh cut, layered, well maintained, nice color and great style. Make up needs to be fresh and flawless. Less is more. No need to pack it on heavy like a clown or have raccoon eyes. Have a nice natural look or colors that compliment your skin. Perhaps go to a makeup counter and get a make over. Spend the bulk of your money on a good cleansing system and foundation. You can buy a cheaper brand of eye shadow, liner and mascara. You want to focus on a great coverage. Also the mineral foundation is wonderful Some are quite blessed they may not need foundation.
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Step 2
Now time to work on that wardrobe. Wear outfits that flatter your body. Watch “What not to wear” on cable. It is a great show. Don't forget to accessorize, accessorize, accessorize. Great belts, necklaces, bracelets, earrings and scarves can doll up any old or dull outfit. Just don't over do it. Blend in some funky colors or some silver, gold or multi color accessories. A cute purse always sets off a great outfit.
They often mention buying staple pieces, your bottoms of black, gray, tan and a nice pair of jeans. Throw in some color. They also mentioned, to have a nice outfit it is good to blend some things such as a pattern, a texture, a shine and a stone. Please make sure your nails are well manicured and your toes are painted or at lest are filed down and look great. -
Step 3
Try to smile often and keep the teeth bright and clean. Find a nice sensual fragrance. Vanilla is an aphrodisiac. Be authentic. Men can sniff out a fake or someone that is trying too hard. Talk less. Men say we talk too much Get busy. Get a hobby, keep your friends. Stay active and sty in shape and exercise. Release some happy endorphins. Every woman is not going to be a size 4. You may be a size 14 but you better be the baddest size 14 out there. Own your size and own your look. Try to get involved in positive things such as volunteering or helping others. Nothing but good energy can come from that. Another mistake I notice that women tend to do. After going out for one date, they have already picked out their bride’s maids and married off the guy. RELAX. He is not going anywhere and if he does it was not meant to be. Also we panic so fast. If we go out with a guy on Monday and if he does not call by Friday we assume he was killed in a plane crash. Chances are the gentleman is busy, not interested, doing the 3-5 day rule to call you back, etc. Relax and it will all work out in the end, besides it always does. Pretend that you are all that guess why? Because you are someone superb. Expect the best and that is what you, my friend will get.
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Step 4
Act as though you are already in a relationship because soon enough you will be.
Be original, daring, bold, smile and speak to strangers especially men.
Get involved, get happy, get busy and get a palm pilot because pretty soon you are going to have more dates than you know what to do with. Oh so he wasn’t interested in you, no problem, next don’t waste your time, keep it moving. The one who will be interested in you is looking for you.
Comments
BCPASSIONS said
on 10/9/2008 LOVE IT!
Addonis said
on 10/4/2008 great work 5 stars
Sharo78 said
on 10/4/2008 Very Good article!