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Step 1
Self-Esteem
Do you really think that woman are not attractive to you
because you don't have a celebrity looking face, nor have
this bulking muscles? Well, I have to say. I absolutely
disagree with that. Unlike men, woman do not weigh on
physical attributes of men. What they look for
and truly attracts them is the strong PERSONALITY.
That's right. A person who has a HIGH self-esteem is more
likely to attract a woman than a handsome person who is
timid. -
Step 2
Smile
You may not realize it, but most women are attracted to
those men who always smile. Smiling can bring great
benefits to you and to others by brightening the day.
Why women will LIKE you when you smile often? The answer
is, they get this positive aura that you project when you
genuinely do so.
According to the survey, woman are attractive to men who
seem to have positive views in life. So... If they see you with
this smiling face often, they may think that you like what you
are seeing in this world. That you're satisfied with your life.
Woman don't like to see weaknesses. They like to see strength
of a true man! If she sees you producing negative emotions
she will subconsciously think that your life is boring and
negative. Women don't like to be with those men. So smile! -
Step 3
OutFit
Even though woman don't place their trust so much on the
looks, they tend to get the first impression of your personality
by their senses, or what they see. More importantly, if they find
you mysterious. They like to unveil things about you.
Even before you speak they can judge you of what you
might be like inside by the way you handle your clothing. If
you wear clothes that are from 50s they may not like it.
So when you go out, try to find some good stuff to wear.
Something unique, but not ridiculous. And make sure they
are nice and clean.
Unless when you go to a place where
you don't really expect yourself to attract any, then you
don't have to be so conscious of what you wear. -
Step 4
Be Tranquil
Now, my friends will be getting the answer why I always try
to be as calm as I can. I don't do this for girls alone, but
for some higher reasons.
But here is the thing. Whey you are calm, and relax, you
show no sign of weakness. Women subconsciously like it.
Even though they may not realize it. In woman psychology,
they react differently when they see men who have great
self-control and equanimity. They would think of you as
man who truly knows himself.
Let's just hear of what James Allen has to say about
your calmness:
"Strong and calm man is always love and revered."
I know its a bit short but, I absolutely agree with this.
And if you want to attract woman, I suggest that you
learn to be calm in many difficult situations. It shows
women that you are strong from inside and sexy as well. -
Step 5
Essence of Men
Woman have their own essence, and they are attracted
to those who smell like a man who knows how to handle
himself.
They don't like unpleasant smell. Do you think you
will attract woman if you smell like you haven't taken a
shower for a week or two?... I Don't think so buddy.
But on the other hand, you can definitely have their
noses swarming behind you. And the only thing you
have to do is to pick the right cologne that women want.
If you are not sure, grab a female friend and let her do
the work at the store's counter.
When you have good essence, they may not say, "Hi! I love
your smell. I'm so attracted to you right now!", but certainly
this authentic essence that you put on does a great magic
In women's brain. You just don't know it yet. -
Step 6
Be a Real Man
If you really really think you need to attract that woman that
you just met at a train station, or book store, or anywhere,
you must become a real man.
Let me break this down. Most woman are NOT attracted to a
man who acts like a boy. Not unless they look to baby sit you.
No. What they are ALWAYS looking for is real man. And in
order to to do let them know that you are a real man, you
must demonstrate it.
How? By doing what real men do. Act like them. Real men
don't act like kids, if you know what I mean.
Let me give you a quick quiz. When a situation comes
when a woman needs your help what would you do?
A) Ignore her and pretend that nada is happening.
B) Approach and offer her a hand.
C) Watch her as she struggle.
If you know that B is the right answer then you are
a real man. Continue acting so. -
Step 7
Reject Fear of Rejection
This is one of the most common mistakes that we men do.
Let us just see first of why fear of rejection can pull you
down.
First, it does give you the wrong notion that you are going
to be rejected, so as a result you often become rejected.
We all going to experience rejection. But you don't have to
look at it as a bad thing. Why is that? Rejection can make
you a real man. A man who is strong.
Fear of rejection shows your weakness, which woman don't
want to see in men.
Here is my advice. The next time you go hunting for fishes
do not be afraid that you are going to be rejected. Just be
confident. Instill into your mind this words, I AM
COURAGEOUS!
Those men who are excellent on what they do had lots of
rejection, perhaps even more than you do. They know that
if this one rejects them, there will be much more out there.
Do not be focus on one woman. It will be a bad Idea. So
keep moving on if ever you get rejected. And remember,
practice not to fear rejection. Good luck!
Comments
GetATrip said
on 2/14/2009 Truly good advice!
chaszesandhriel said
on 2/13/2009 If only all men could read this... :-)