How to Have God at the Center of your dating relationship

Do you want to have God at the center of your dating relationship? Would you like God to influence the love you show another person? Here is some advice to help you pursue God's will in your dating relationship.

Instructions

1. Keep in mind the reality that God is real. While having a special someone can bring great happiness in this world, realizing the eternally wonderful nature of God's love is something you do not want to miss. God is real. His love is real. God is love. Realize that God is working in your life right now. His forgiveness is real and His promises are real. Give the love God has given you to your boyfriend or girlfriend. God's love is perfect. Let Christ's love reign in your dating relationship. Let the love you have for each other be a banner to the world displaying God's goodness.

2. Be careful with physical affection. Hugs are great. God created physical affection to be good. But be careful in how much physical permission you give one another. A relationship can easily turn sinful if physical bonding occurs too quickly. Everyone is different. But if you feel guilty at all for actions, it may be good indication that you are going too far. Avoid physical actions that might cause lustful thoughts. Save sex for marriage. Talk about your physical actions with each other, making sure you are both comfortable and feeling great. Remember, you might have to explain actions to your future spouse if you do not marry the guy or girl you are currently dating.

3. Get involved with Church. Make sure your boyfriend or girlfriend and you are active in the body of Christ. You will feel good about sharing God's love. He calls us to serve Him. Find a bible study. Love on people. Find a church where you can be involved together.

4. Pray. Pray about your dating relationship. Give everything over to God. Let God know that you are asking His approval. Talk to God about the problems that arise. Thank Him for the opportunity to be in a relationship and the happy times you experience. You can also pray with your boyfriend or girlfriend. It is a good way to help each other out with whatever stresses life brings. By praying together, you are experiencing God together.

5. Remember that God's Love is the Best. Keep in mind the love God has for you. Realize that the most perfect love comes from God. He will do much more to fill you than a person ever could. Approach your dating relationship knowing that God loves you and likes you. Always remember He sent His son, Jesus, to die for your sins. Make sure you are strong in your relationship with God. This means knowing that He is always there to help you along the way. Trust Him. Make God the most important in your life. Make Him the love of your life.