Things You'll Need:
- Patience
- Lots of Love
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Step 1
Talk it OutTALK.TALK.TALK
Before start nagging or complaining, sit down with your husband and make him understand your point of view. Let him know why you are complaining and why you are angry at him. He might not know what's going on in your head. So Communicate your thoughts -
Step 2
Not when he is happyDON'T START COMPLAINING WHEN HE WATCHING SUPER-BOWL
Wait for the right time to put across your point. Don't start a serious
conversation while he is watching his favorite game or busy with work. He will not be able to pay attention and that will add fire to the fuel.
Wait for the time when your spouse can concentrate on your argument. -
Step 3
Let him relax!!NOT AS SOON AS HE COMES FROM OFFICE
Don't start complaining or sulking as soon as your husband comes back from
office. That is the worst time to put across your thoughts. Let him relax and get in the right mood before talking -
Step 4
Not in PublicNOT IN FRONT OF PEOPLE
Don't scold , shout or complain in front of friends or people. This will push him in a corner and he might get into defensive mode -
Step 5
PraisePRAISE
Everybody loves praises. Praise your husband if he does something that you have been telling him to do for a long time. -
Step 6
Silence sometimesSILENCE IS GOLDEN SOMETIMES
Sometimes Silence is the answer. No matter how angry you are and how much you want to scream. Restrain yourself sometimes. It might make him feel guilt and he might come around. -
Step 7
Look insideIS IT BIGGER THAN THAT?
Try to figure out if you are complaining because of some immediate thing that happened or is there a bigger and more serious issue lurking underneath than anger . You might find answer to your problem within yourself . -
Step 8
Not on Phone pleaseDON'T YELL AT HIM ON PHONE
Don't start yelling at him on phone while he is at office or with friends. It will put him in a very embarrassing position and he will blame you for all that. -
Step 9
Eat FirstEAT FIRST
Hunger can increase frustration and irritation for no reason. You might not think the issue to be that serious after your stomach is full . Make sure you are not yelling at each other because you are hunger .










