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How to avoid being a nagging wife

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Are you the nagging wife?
Are you the nagging wife?

Nagging wives are the woes of husband. They try to avoid them by fighting, lying or even shouting back at them. Nagging wives ruin not only their marriages but ruin childrens lives too.
STOP BEING A NAGGING WIFE and SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Patience
  • Lots of Love
  1. Step 1
    Talk it Out
    Talk it Out

    TALK.TALK.TALK
    Before start nagging or complaining, sit down with your husband and make him understand your point of view. Let him know why you are complaining and why you are angry at him. He might not know what's going on in your head. So Communicate your thoughts

  2. Step 2
    Not when he is happy
    Not when he is happy

    DON'T START COMPLAINING WHEN HE WATCHING SUPER-BOWL

    Wait for the right time to put across your point. Don't start a serious
    conversation while he is watching his favorite game or busy with work. He will not be able to pay attention and that will add fire to the fuel.
    Wait for the time when your spouse can concentrate on your argument.

  3. Step 3
    Let him relax!!
    Let him relax!!

    NOT AS SOON AS HE COMES FROM OFFICE

    Don't start complaining or sulking as soon as your husband comes back from
    office. That is the worst time to put across your thoughts. Let him relax and get in the right mood before talking

  4. Step 4
    Not in Public
    Not in Public

    NOT IN FRONT OF PEOPLE

    Don't scold , shout or complain in front of friends or people. This will push him in a corner and he might get into defensive mode

  5. Step 5
    Praise
    Praise

    PRAISE

    Everybody loves praises. Praise your husband if he does something that you have been telling him to do for a long time.

  6. Step 6
    Silence sometimes
    Silence sometimes

    SILENCE IS GOLDEN SOMETIMES

    Sometimes Silence is the answer. No matter how angry you are and how much you want to scream. Restrain yourself sometimes. It might make him feel guilt and he might come around.

  7. Step 7
    Look inside
    Look inside

    IS IT BIGGER THAN THAT?

    Try to figure out if you are complaining because of some immediate thing that happened or is there a bigger and more serious issue lurking underneath than anger . You might find answer to your problem within yourself .

  8. Step 8
    Not on Phone please
    Not on Phone please

    DON'T YELL AT HIM ON PHONE

    Don't start yelling at him on phone while he is at office or with friends. It will put him in a very embarrassing position and he will blame you for all that.

  9. Step 9
    Eat First
    Eat First

    EAT FIRST

    Hunger can increase frustration and irritation for no reason. You might not think the issue to be that serious after your stomach is full . Make sure you are not yelling at each other because you are hunger .

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