How to Act Cool
Cool is something we all strive for at one point or another in our lives. Everyone's seen the stereotype of "cool" in movies and on television: the guy who gets all the girls, or the one who can coerce teachers and parents with his laid-back charm. However, coolness isn't just something you're born with or can purchase. Cool is whatever you make it. There are just a few basic things to keep in mind.
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Relax. Coolness means staying calm in stressful situations. Always have a plan and be ready to make your next move.
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Dress with style and highlight your best physical features. For instance; if you have muscular arms, wear tighter fitting T-shirts to show off your strong build. If you have a slender build, wear slim jeans to show off your legs.
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Be yourself no matter what. Cool people are comfortable in their own skin and refuse to yield to fads and trends. Take who you are and own it: after all, there's only one you.
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Act with confidence and let your actions speak louder than your words. Honesty and straightforwardness are traits people respect. Lead by example at home and in the workplace.
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Surround yourself with people you view as cool. It's a common saying that, "you are who you hang out with." Cool people develop a diverse social network and stay true to themselves and their friends.
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Tips & Warnings
Don't be afraid to open up to those close to you. Cool means being secure enough to talk about your feelings.
Be generous and approachable to everyone who comes into your life.
Avoid arrogance, which people sometimes confuse with coolness. Pompousness drives people away.
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