How to flirt!

Flirting is, at its most basic, a way to meet potential mates and see if they are compatible. Sometimes flirting is the only way to open the door to a romantic relationship with someone you don't know. Flirting is a very important skill and makes a lot of people nervous. There is an art to flirting and it's an art that can be learned.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• yourself
• someone special

1. Flirting is fun, but only if you do not take it too seriously. Try lowering your expectations. Usually, you will flirt with someone for a short time and then maybe never talk to them again. If you always go in to flirting expecting to date or marry the person, you are going to be very disappointed and you will probably sound desperate.

2. Always smile and look your best. Just relax and use your body language to give signals that you are the fun person that you are, and to show that you are comfortable and confident. Confidence is everything!! There is nothing to be nervous about.

3. Make eye contact but don't stare. Give the person your complete attention. Laugh at their jokes and be a good listener. A good listener is far more important to successful flirting than being witty.

Tips & Warnings

• read body language
• make small talk
• smile
• good eye contact
• seem interested not interesting