How to Approach Beautiful Women

Approaching beautiful women may seem like an impossible task to many men, but with a little planning and common sense, you have a reasonable possibility of success. Approaching beautiful women is more art than science. Much of it is trial and error, and the more you do it, the better you will get at it. There is a lot of room for individual style when you try to approach a beautiful woman, but if you follow the tips outlined in this article, you'll leave less up to chance.

Difficulty:

Moderately Challenging

Instructions

1. Be sue pf yourself. Before you even begin to think about approaching a beautiful woman, you must have self-confidence. Think of all the skills and talents you have. Eliminate any doubts about your abilities. You may want to repeat a positive phrase like "I am irresistible to women" until you believe it. You don't want to be arrogant, but fear or lack of self-assurance is definitely a turn-off for women. They can sense it if you are not confident. You can't fake it.

2. Make the first move towards a beautiful woman. How many times has a beautiful woman approached you? Probably not often, so waiting for it to happen is not going to do you any good. Go ahead and approach the woman and start talking to her. The longer you wait, the more tense and less confident you will be. You also risk looking like a creepy stalker, so make the first move. If you do not succeed, you have more time to find another woman to approach.

3. Look at her as a person first. Find a common interests or something to compliment her on besides her looks. She probably gets lots of compliments every day on how beautiful she is, but you can stand out if you show more interest in her as a person. Taking an interest in her job or hobbies is a good place to start.

4. Act natural and relaxed. This goes back to being confident. Most people cannot perform well if they are tense. Stay calm. It's just a conversation, of the sort you have had with many people before. Just because she's a beautiful woman does not mean she isn't a regular person, so there is no reason to tense up.

5. Take things slowly. Let the conversation flow naturally, and don't be anxious to get her number or ask her out. You don't want to look desperate. Concentrate on making a connection and a friendship first. Most men will look at a beautiful woman as a target. Differentiate yourself from the crowd by not being forceful in your intentions and you will build trust with her.

6. Exit gracefully. If you have approached a beautiful woman with confidence and have had a good conversation, don't linger too long and let the goodwill you have built up go away. Pique her interest some more by not appearing too interested in her. Tell her you enjoyed talking to her, but you have to go. Often, she will give you her phone number without you asking for it.

Tips & Warnings

• Try to approach beautiful women in a non-threatening environment, such as a mall or park. Try to avoid approaching beautiful women in bars or nightclubs, as their defenses will be up.

• Despite your efforts, you will sometimes not make a connection, for whatever reason. It happens. Just accept it and move on. As long as your are able to approach a beautiful woman and initiate a conversation, you will gain valuable experience for the next time.