How to Live with A Diabetic Loved One

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

Patience
Compassion
Desire to Learn
Desire to Change
Desire to Help

Step 1

Educate yourself on the disease. There are two main types of Diabetes (Type I, and Type II). Type I is usually referred to as Juvenile Diabetes (but can set itself in adulthood), and Type II, which also usually occurs in adulthood, can often be controlled with diet and exercise.
Step 2

Work together to learn how to take blood sugar samples! Diabetics should check their blood sugar levels several times per day. It is always important to learn appropriate glucose levels and how to monitor them. Should a situation occur where the person is incapacitated and cannot check their own blood levels, you should be educated on how to perform this important procedure and understand the results.
Step 3

Understand the importance of diet and exercise for diabetics. Again, most cases of Type II can be alleviated or even "cured" with an appropriate diet and exercise plan. However, Type I diabetics should also partake in these measures as it will assist them with controlling their blood sugar levels. You, as the partner, can benefit as well, by working out a plan to exercise together (walking, biking, tennis, etc).
Step 4

Acquaint yourself with A1C levels and what they mean. Short version - A1C levels, when monitored over a three (3) month period, should be below 200. If these levels go above 200 and remain, it can cause lasting effects on the eyes, kidneys and other vital organs.
Step 5

Learn how the consumption of food and working out affect blood sugar levels. It will assist you and your diabetic partner to time outings and meals appropriately, so that "low blood sugar" instances will not occur (or will be easier to predict).
Step 6

Research and locate a reputable Endocrinologist. These specialists often have long patient waiting lists. It is also important to know if they are covered by your insurance carrier and whether or not they are accepting new patients. As these doctors do have long waiting lists, it is a good idea to start research as soon as possible. If a family practitioner has diagnosed the disease, ask them for a referral.
Step 7

Educate yourself on what items are needed to appropriately monitor blood glucose levels. Many companies offer certificates for low-cost or even free glucose monitors, test strips, needles, etc. You should also check with your insurance carrier to see what items are specifically covered. Scientific advancements have been made with the creation of the insulin pump, which can also assist with managing the disease. Consult a health professional for further information.
Step 8

Learn to recognize the signs of a "low". Irritability, slurring of words, inability to verbalize a thought, dilation of pupils, excessive sweating, can all be indicators of a blood sugar low. Be conscientious of these symptoms and be prepared to handle the situation.
Step 9

Prepare yourself! Automobiles, boats, RV's, etc., should be outfitted with food items that can assist in raising blood sugar should a low blood sugar instance occur. Some diabetics only require a piece of candy, while others may require more "fast-acting" measures such as drinking orange juice or eating fruit or a candy bar. Some diabetics may even require an "emergency" glucogon kit (prescribed by a Physician) which can assist in the most extreme and dire cases of blood sugar low. Keep in mind that items should be "travel friendly" - as you will not want to keep chocolate in a hot car. Available at most pharmacies are also "sugar tabs" or liquid sugar that stay quite nicely in any travel situation.
Step 10

Diabetics can suffer from an array of debilitating medical problems which can affect, amongst other things, circulation, the eyes, kidneys and feet. It is important to have all of these things checked on a regular basis and under a physician's supervision. Your Endocrinolgist can assist you and your loved one with these situations as the need arises.
Step 11

Take an ACTIVE ROLE! You can be part of the problem or the solution. Take part in your loved ones doctor appointments and diet and exercise plan. By being an active participant, it will make managing the disease easier on all parties.
Step 12

Most importantly, be patient and compassionate. Diabetes is not an easy disease to deal with for anyone. Try your best to be helpful, but not overbearing, and as previously stated, be prepared should something unexpected happen.