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How to be more assertive

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By sabrinacareer
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Being assertive does not come naturally to a lot of people, it takes practice.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Time
  • Practice
  • Confidence
  1. Step 1

    Make sure your posture is good, stand tall

  2. Step 2

    Practice having a clear calm voice instead of a shaky one

  3. Step 3

    Express clearly what you need or want from that person, without sounding rude or uncertain

  4. Step 4

    If the person seems not to listen, express again your wants in a clear calm voice and show that you are confident.

Tips & Warnings
  • To become more assertive it takes practice, so if the first time you try it, you do not succeed, do not worry. Just keep on trying.

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on 10/3/2008 Sometimes I have a little trouble in this field. Thanks for the advice.

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on 10/1/2008 Simple, yet effective advice.

HairCrazy said

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on 10/1/2008 This is hard for a lot of people. THanks!

bar10dr98 said

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on 9/30/2008 Great advice!

duncan411 said

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on 9/29/2008 Great Tips

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