How to be a Better Husband (5 steps!)

Through many years of marriage there are many things that I have learned in regards to being a better husband. While I am guilty of not always making the right decisions, the following tips have always been a blessing to my marriage.

Things You'll Need

• An open mind
• An open heart
• A desire to express your love to your wife.

Instructions

1. 

   First and foremost, listen. Being a supportive and caring husband revolves around listening to what your wife has to say. Women, in most cases, feel joy when they discuss things going on in their life to you. Knowing that you care and want to spend time listening to what they have to say can reassure them that you love them and care about them.

2. 

   Respect her. Respect not only what she has to say, but the choices that she makes. Respect her opinion when it comes to the workplace, the home, or family decisions. Don't be afraid to voice your opinion, but don't ever come across as demanding or resentful.

3. 

   Surprise her. Not every husband can go out to buy his wife a $4,000 diamond ring on a whim to say "I love you." In many cases, the small things in life can be just as effective in showing your love and support of her. A single red rose to her workplace, a candy heart with "I love you" written on it, a quiet walk in a romantic spot, and her favorite CD while watching the sunset can all be ideas that show her that you love her without costing a fortune.

4. 

   Be willing to give up some of your time for her. While the Sunday evening football game may be the event of the century in your eyes, sometimes giving up something that you want to do in order to spend time with her on something SHE may want to do can be a great way to show your love for her. Both of you should have time set aside to do things that are important in each others eyes, but together time is a strong factor in building a healthy relationship.

5. 

   Don't be afraid to talk to her. Many men bottle their emotions and events of the day up without spending the time to discuss them with their wives. While you don't need to tell her every little detail about your day or break down in tears every time you see her, conversation and emotion at times can help strengthen the bond that you both share. Communication is such a key to a successful marriage.