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Step 1
Don't take it personally. If someone criticizes a particular parenting skill, remember that they aren't necessarily criticizing you as a person. If you take offense easily to these things, find a group of parents who share your parenting skills and goals.
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Step 2
Be confident in the choices you've made. If someone shares a better way to do something, you can simply say that your current method is working for you and your family. Thank the person for offering their suggestions, but don't change your method because someone else recommends it. Stick to what is currently working.
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Step 3
Appreciate and respect your parents. Your parents will probably be the first ones to offer you advice. Listen to them, thank them for taking an interest, but kindly remind them that you'd like to try other things with your baby.
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Step 4
Do your research. If you need to convince someone why you are parenting the way you are, it is good to have some research to back you up. For instance, if you choose not to have your son circumcised, it is wise to know that there is not enough scientific evidence for it to be routinely recommended for health reasons.
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Step 5
Consider the source of information. It is risky to have a conversation with other parents who don't believe or support your style of parenting. For example, if you choose attachment parenting and they disagree with that lifestyle, it may create numerous arguments.
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Step 6
Take a stand. Don't compromise your parenting skills or beliefs for anyone else. You are ultimately responsible for raising your child and you must raise him with the beliefs you are comfortable with.
Comments
Kallicat said
on 12/25/2008 I can appreciate your tips. One saying that always worked for me is "Thank you for your suggestions. I/We will take that into consideration." It's usually hard for them to argue with you at that point as they must give you time to consider it. Then go about your business and do what you want.