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Step 1
Know the risk factors for elder abuse. Women older than 80, who are dependent on others for care, and who may have a family member who abuses drugs and/or alcohol are more likely to become victims of elder abuse.
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Step 2
Be actively involved in an aging parent’s or other family member’s care, especially if he or she is a resident of an assisted living or skilled nursing facility. The more involved you are in the person’s care plan, the better you can rest that he or she is safe and being well cared for.
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Step 3
Watch for signs of dehydration or loss of appetite. Never assume that weight loss is due to illness or medication. Keep in mind, too, that the symptom of dementia actually may be caused by undernourishment.
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Step 4
Observe for other signs of physical or mental neglect. Report any unexplained injuries. Pay attention to obvious signs of physical trauma, which does not only apply to sprains and fractures. Any bruises, cuts, or scratches could mean that a person is being physically abused. In particular, frequent or repeated injuries may well be cause for concern.
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Step 5
Investigate if an individual reports missing money or valuables. Be on the alert if an older person suddenly has a new friend, and then begins making large cash withdrawals from bank accounts. An unexpected change made in a will could be another indicator that someone may be taking financial advantage of the individual.
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Step 6
Keep an eye on whether the older person seems anxious, easily frightened, or timid about speaking freely. Sudden isolation from family and friends may be another sign of abuse. Unfortunately, many cases of elder abuse continue to go unreported, as the individual being abused either is ashamed or afraid to tell anyone.
