How to Be a Better Flirt

Flirting, which is basically just small talk aimed at a romantic/sexual interest, is a great way to facilitate conversation and, hopefully, make a romantic connection. Read this easy-to-follow article for tips on how to become better at flirting!

Things You'll Need

  • Practice
  • Desire
  • Awareness
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Instructions

    • 1

      Don't take it so seriously -- Flirting should be fun and enjoyable. After all, flirting is just casual talk designed to convey your interest (romantic) in someone while at the same time gauging their potential romantic interest in you. Flirting, although fueled by sexual desire and attraction, should be light-hearted. Flirting is not brain surgery or some life-and-death endeavor. Take it for what it is, and enjoy it!

    • 2

      Talk about any and everything -- The goal of flirting is to engage a romantic interest in dialogue, which, hopefully, will lead to something more, a romance or sexual relationship. Don't worry too much about trying to pick the "perfect" topic or subject to talk (flirt) about. The subject matter is not that importnat - but the talking is!

    • 3

      Give yourself permission to shine -- Flirting is an opportunity for you to have fun with yourself and take liberties that you might not otherwise take. And it may lead to romance, sex, or just friendship; th possibilities are endless! There is no right or wrong way to flirt, but you can be confident and you can shine doing your own style of flirting.

Tips & Warnings

  • Remind yourself of your own self-worth

  • People are just people - don't take any one person so seriously

  • Don't let rejection or being snubbed wreck your day; just move on to the next person

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