How to Do the World's Best Handshake

When we meet someone, a handshake contributes greatly to the first impression for both parties. A handshake can convey appreciation, enthusiasm, a willingness to work together or the acceptance of an agreement. Regardless of the message we hope to convey, a firm, proper handshake is the best way to accomplish it.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Establish eye contact and smile as the handshake is initiated. Offer a verbal greeting or parting words during the handshake.

2. Extend the right hand as a gesture of willingness to greet and welcome the other person. Keep the hand relaxed and turned so that the palm is facing to the left and the thumb is more or less parallel to the ceiling.

3. Slide the hand into the hand of the other person so that the area between the thumb and forefinger are in contact. Press the hands together so that there is no gap.

4. Apply slight pressure to the hand of the other individual. Match the pressure the other person exerts in the handshake. Allow the pressure to impart enthusiasm rather than competition.

5. Bring a second hand to the handshake to show much enthusiasm or sincerity. Place the left hand palm down over top of the two joined hands. Add words to further the message.

6. Maintain the handshake as long as the other party seems comfortable doing so. Wait for a mutually acceptable opportunity to release the handshake. Understand that some particularly enthusiastic individuals may extend a handshake for up to 30 seconds.

7. Accept a "fishy" handshake that is offered palm down with the fingers extended. Grasp the fingers between the extension of the thumb and forefinger briefly and release.