How to Train Your Man!

Train your husband, fiancé, or boyfriend to be the man you want him to be. Remember how he was when you first met? Remember how you had him eating out of the palm of your hand? Well, you can have him that way again. You just need to remember what it was that you were doing back then that you aren't doing now.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Determination
• Patience
• Consistency
• And a positive and playful attitude

1. 
   You've got to BE the "candy."

   Remember "The Three Double-Yoos": You have to make him "WANT it, WORK for it, and WAIT for it." If you aren't doing that, then you've cheapened the ONE THING that you have to control him. First of all, you have to make him WANT IT. That means you've got to BE the "candy" in his life. You've got to LOOK like the candy, DRESS like the candy, and make him crave it all day, every day ... 24/7. When he comes home, wear that little short skirt with the thong underwear, or the lacy boyshorts, or the baby-doll night gown. Then, when he decides he wants some, don't just give it to him. Of course he wants it, that's what you want.

2. 
   Keep his mind on the "candy."

   In Step 2, he needs to WORK for it. This when you let him know what YOU want. You want him to start being the man you want him to be. Don't scold him or nag him. Be sweet. Just let him know that there's going to be no more porn, no more trips to the topless bars, and no more sneaking around. He needs to start coming straight home from work. And most importantly, no more wanking. He has to save it for you. You have to let him know you mean it, and be firm. He needs to focus 100% of his sexual attention on you. Then, he needs to start cooking dinner each night (or taking you out to eat). He needs to start washing the dishes, doing the laundry, and emptying the trash. No playing golf on Saturday. He needs to stay home and mow the yard, clean the swimming pool, paint the garage, and fix all those things on your "To Do List." You may have to phase these things into your training program slowly, adding a few each week, rather than hitting him with it all at once. And as he does each one, tell him what a "good boy" he is, and how he's going to LOVE the candy on Saturday night.

3. 
   Remind him you've put your foot down.

   In Step 3, you have to make him WAIT for it. As he continues to be your "good boy" all week, working his little tush off to earn the "candy" on Saturday night, you need to continue "BEing the candy." Loose those old sweat pants for a cute skirt. Trade the granny panties for a thong. Get rid of the old sweat shirt and wear a cute top. Toss out the fluffy slippers for some sexy little heels. REMIND him what he's working for and waiting for! As he's working and waiting for it, keep his mind on the "candy!"

4. 
   Time to reward your "candy boy!"

   In Step 4, you finally give him the "candy." On Saturday night, have him take you out somewhere nice, or have him fix you a romantic dinner at home. And then, let him have the "candy." But when you do, you make darn sure its best he's ever had. And right when he's in the middle of enjoying his "candy" reward ... grab him by the chin, look right in his eyes, and ask him if he knows "why" he's getting the candy. If he doesn't, tell him its because he's been SUCH a "good, good, good boy" all week. And ... if he's a good boy all next week, maybe he'll get the "candy" again next Saturday.

5. 
   Keep him begging for more.

   Once you have your man "trained." You can start giving him the "candy" a bit more often. Maybe two or three times a week. But make sure that you make him work for it and wait for it. Remember, you have to keep him focussed on YOU, 24/7.

Tips & Warnings

• Men are like little boys. They just like a different kind of candy! Remember that. If he WAS a little boy, and he loved candy, would you let him just have as much as he wanted, any time he wanted? Of course not! If you gave him candy too often he would soon tire of it. If you don't make the "candy" look like something he really wants, and if you don't make him work for it and wait for it, then you have cheapened the one thing that you have to bargain with. And its the one thing you've got that he's always liked the most. He wants to be teased, and you need to do it. Don't spoil it for him. In the end, he'll be happier, and you'll be happier.
• Every woman needs to adjust this training program to fit her man. Some men may be more difficult than others. You may need to start by cutting him back on the "candy" a little at a time. Cut him back to two or three times a week. And then maybe once a week until you know that he's trained. Then you can start rewarding him more often. But remember, any time you give him the "candy," he will be satisfied for a day or two. Once he starts wanting it again, you have to make him work for it and wait for it.

Resources

• "Real Women Don't Do Housework!"

[powerleg5]

on 7/7/2009 You covered the bases very well, impressive is the word that c*ms to mind. I have to grade it a 5 with a recommend.

[LCM323444]

on 7/5/2009 Dreamloverlabs (below) recommended a male chastity device. But, if you are doing all that you should to focus his attention on you, a chastity device should not be necessary. But, if he continues to sneak around, look at porn, and go to topless clubs, then you will want to use a CB-6000. Don't negotiate with him, put your foot down and be firm with him. In the long run, he'll be glad you did.

[starlet67]

on 7/2/2009 Good strategies for training your man!5*

[LCM323444]

on 7/2/2009 Dear tallis34: Getting "close to women" shouldn't be your choice. It should be her choice. --Lisa M.

[Nephilian]

on 4/11/2009 Nice. Hehe