How to Get a Guy Not to Like You

Get a Guy To Not Like You

Have you ever met a guy who really seems to like you, but the feeling is not mutual? Perhaps you were not attracted to him from the outset. Or you went out with him and decided he was not your type. Maybe you want to spare him rejection. If you can relate to any of the above, you need to learn how to get a guy to not like you. The trick is to think of what you can do to let the man know you are not interested. Read more about how to get a guy to not like you in the following steps.

Instructions

1. Be direct with the guy about your feelings. Tell the man that you are not interested in him romantically.

2. State your status. Explain to the guy that you are flattered, but you are also taken.

3. Stay busy. Accept the fact that there isn't any point in wasting his or your time. Explain very directly that you do not have time to date.

4. Talk affectionately about another man in your life. Start a conversation with the guy, who has shown interest in you, about the other guy you are interested in dating. Or flirt with another guy to clue him in.

5. Ignore the guy. Be polite, but avoid saying anything that would give him a reason to believe you like him.

6. Consider the timing. Convey the idea that you are not looking for a relationship.

7. Suggest friendship. Discuss the fact that even though you do not like him in the romantic sense, you are open to the possibility of friendship.

Tips & Warnings

• Most of these tips should get a guy to not like you, but you may have to be patient and persistent.

• Try not to dwell on any guilt feelings, as this may leave you vulnerable to his affections.

• Use caution when you attempt to get a guy to not like you.

• Do not be verbally abusive just to get the guy not to like you; instead try to be empathetic .

Resources

• Men Confess Annoying Things Women Do
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