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How to Attract Asian Guys

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By Jennifer Eblin
eHow Contributing Writer
(3 Ratings)

There’s something about Asian guys that many women love. Maybe it’s their eyes, hair color or even the way they treat a woman. If you tend to like Asian men, you probably want to know how to attract these men yourself. There are a few things you need to do, but above all else, take a calm approach and let them do the pursuing.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Express an interest in his culture and background. This can be as simple as asking about where he grew up or when he first moved to the country. Like all men, they want to know that you’re interested in them and their lives.

  2. Step 2

    Ask for help learning his native language. If you don't know if he has knowledge of the language, try mentioning how beautiful it is first and ask if he speaks it.

  3. Step 3

    Let him know that you’re interested in him for him, not just because of his culture. You should want to attract a guy because you like the person he is, not because he just happens to be Asian.

  4. Step 4

    Invite the guy out as part of a group rather than a one-on-one situation. Asian men typically prefer women who are a little less aggressive. By inviting him along on a group outing, you’ll show that you’re interested but he can still ask you out on a more formal date.

  5. Step 5

    Let him pursue you. Many Asian men feel more comfortable making the first move and treating you like a lady of his own culture.

Tips & Warnings
  • Make sure to let the guy know right up front that you date outside your ethnicity. Some Asian men may feel put off or hesitant to ask you out because they think you only date men in your own ethnic group.

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on 10/18/2008 Great tips. 5 stars! Thanks for sharing.

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