How to Secure a Second Date

While it may be hard to initiate a first date, securing the second date can prove to be more difficult. Whether the problem is finding the right moment or being too nervous to initiate the thought of a second date, this apprehension must be dealt with in order to start new relationships. Dating confidence is essential to maintaining the relationships you desire. Learn to take control of your dating destiny by securing the second date.

Instructions

1. Act your best on the first date. Lay the proper groundwork for a second date on the first date. Give your date a reason to want to take the chance of going out with you again. No one likes to have their time wasted by rude, insensitive jerks. Be on your best behavior to have a better chance of securing a second date. Remember, a bad impression is hard to beak.

2. Thank your date for their time. Make time to show appreciation for the time your date took out to spend with you on your first date. Provide examples of the good moments you had to let them know you were paying attention. Being polite can help you earn points even f the date didn’t go so well. Showing your positive attitude may just work to set you apart from the rest of the dating crowd.

3. Leave your date wanting more. Consider the first date an appetizer and your second date the main course. While you should be polite and accommodating on your first date, it’s important not to give away all of your charms. The purpose of dating is to get to know the other person over time. Providing too much information or satisfaction to the other person could leave them through with you and ready to move on to the next person.

4. Choose the right moment to ask for the second date. Many choose to ask for a second date immediately after the first date is over. Although common, don’t feel rushed to make this decision. Assess the mood following the date to check if this is indeed the appropriate time. Situations like rushing to meet curfews or even too much laughter could cause you to postpone your proposal. Ensure you have exchanged the correct contact information, especially if you decide to ask for the date later.

5. Approach them with an offer. Be direct about your desire to have a second date with them so your proposal can’t be ignored. Offer suitable date activities and times to help ease any awkwardness that may arise from your question. Avoid assuming you know their answer before you take the chance of asking the question. A good first date doesn’t always equal a second date just as a bad first date doesn’t always rule out a second date.

Tips & Warnings

• Confidence can be the deciding factor when a second date is proposed.

• Don’t count yourself out of a second date before trying to secure it.