How to Find The Male G-Spot

The male G-spot is actually his prostate, and I'm going to show you how to find it! Place your hand at the root of his ****. On that location, inside his body, there's a chestnut-sized gland just below the bladder. This is his prostate gland. It manufactures part of the fluid that you emit during ejaculation and for most men is an excellent part of their anatomy that enables them to experience great sexual pleasure.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

1. Cleanliness Helps
   
   Arousing the prostate means that you need to access his 'backdoor'. This may make a lot of men cringe but keep your eye on the goal - great sexual pleasure. Anyway, part of a man's anxiety towards anal play is concern about hygiene. You can easily remove this mental obstacle by having a nice shower before further stimulating the male G-Spot. If you fear that he might want to engage in a bowel movement, then remove this obstacle by making him do this first before you even shower.

2. Cut Your Nails To Prevent Any Accidents
   
   The next thing to do is to ensure that you don't do anything to irritate or scratch his anus. Cut your nails and make sure your fingers are clean. (If you want to, you can use latex gloves too.) If you plan to use a sex toy, ensure that there are no rough edges that can hurt him.

3. It Starts With Your Mind
   
   A man's prostate enlarges when he's aroused, making it easier to find. As such, try to arouse him first with a blow job or hand job

4. Let's Get Started
   
   First of all, make sure your fingers are well lubed. Now, the best way to start inserting a finger through his backdoor is to use the tip of your finger first. Tell him to inhale as you do this. When he exhales, instruct him to contract his muscles a bit and push out as if he's relieving himself in the bathroom while continuously inserting the rest of your finger. Once your finger is in, just take a moment and relax. Tell him to try and get used to the feeling of your finger inside his anus.

5. Locate His Prostate
   
   About two inches in and facing toward his belly, you'll find his prostate. It's that walnut-shaped swelling that you feel.

6. Stimulate His G-Spot
   
   After locating his prostate, now's the time to see what best stimulates it. Most men swear that applying continuous but consistent pressure on it is best, while others find that flicking it or using a sex toy that vibrates against it is best. Experiment and see which one suits him best!

Tips & Warnings

• Anal penetration needs getting used. Try to have an open mind and focus instead of the sexual pleasure it can bring you and him!
• Don't force yourself on the first try. Take baby steps and each time you try just go a bit further than the last time.

Resources

• Oral Sex Quiz

[playitagain]

on 9/3/2008 I have read that anal play is best enjoyed if the male uses an enima an hour or two before the activity. I have given myself a few enimas in recent months. I have found them to be rather enjoyable as the warm water feels comforting when injected.

I don't care for the disposable types. They don't contain enough liquid, in my opinion, and produce rather "extreme" bowl movements. The good-old hot water bottle enima seems best for me. BE CAREFUL not to inject TOO MUCH water (more than two pints felt like too much in my opinion). VERY IMPORTANT: test the temperature on the inside of your wrist (as one would with a baby's bottle). Excessive temperature can cause severe discomfort and possible injury!

I think it would kinda' fun if my female partner would administer the treatment. I have not asked her... yet.