How to Re-Gift
It's a taboo subject, but one that everyone experiences at some time in their life: re-gifting. Often it begins with ugly wrapping paper or an atrocious gift bag and has something either useless, unwanted or both inside. So, when faced with a horrible gift, what can you do? Re-use it and give it to someone else! It may not be a proud act, but it sure is a practical one. Does this Spark an idea?
Instructions
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Thank the person for the unwanted gift. Despite how ugly or useless it may be, make sure to graciously thank the person. Although to you it may be atrocious and awful, to them it may mean time spent searching, money spent purchasing and heart-felt consideration. Be kind and grateful.
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Make sure no one knows where the unwanted gift goes. As soon as you can, store the gift in a secure location. Don't leave the bright pink wrapped box on your kitchen table or countertop for the world (or guests) to see. When you get it, store it away. This will allow for the re-gifting transition to be smooth.
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Have in mind a recipient for the unwanted gift. As soon as you get the unwanted item, you should have a mental picture of who would really enjoy the something that you're currently despising. If it's a gift given to your child and it's unwanted, you can easily think of another child who could receive it.
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Get a new gift bag or use new paper. Many times, gifts awaiting recycling can sit somewhere for awhile. Over time, the paper wears, rips and tears so go and use new wrapping paper or a new gift bag. This will rejuvenate the look of the gift and also give you re-gifting deniability.
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Check acquaintances. Nothing kills re-gifting quicker than when your gift-giver is present for the opening of the re-gift. If Bob gave you a mounted fish and you plan to give it to Jack, don't do it if Bob is going to be at the party or if Jack is his best friend.
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Have a cover story. Have an answer for "Hey, where's that Hoola lamp I gave you?" If you stammer, it's over. Be prepared to state something broke, was lost or somehow is missing. You want to keep the giver's feelings in mind at all times.
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Comments
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Tiffany Noth
Dec 23, 2008
These are great tips! It is always better to recycle than to toss it into the trash. -
staysik
Dec 23, 2008
These are good tips and some must be followed to prevent hurt feelings and uncomfortable moments. I have received a gift that I gave, back and even though I'm pretty laid-back, it still was a little annoying and hurtful. But life goes on, and if you ever make that mistake, a genuine apology usually will smooth things over as everyone knows how hectic the holidays can be, especially if you live in a large family! -
Katherine Huether
Dec 23, 2008
I have to be careful with regifting. Sometimes I forget who originally gave it to me! I wouldn't want to give it back to the same person... -
Meldeine Sipes
Dec 23, 2008
I could never re-gift but sometimes I really want to. Great advice. -
Haoie
Dec 22, 2008
Fruit cake: The gift that just keeps on being given.