How to Prescribe Behavior to Prevent Child Meltdown

Prevent meltdowns

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By Julia Fuller
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Do you have a child who doesn't do well with transitions? Does your child have a meltdown at the slightest provocation or change in schedule? Does your child kick, punch, destroy property, swear, and runaway when angry? These meltdowns are especially common in children who suffered early trauma through abuse, neglect, alcohol, or drug exposure. Some families have learned how to prescribe behavior to prevent child meltdown.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

Patience
Quick thinking
Planning

Step 1

Look at your child

Look directly at your child who is about to have a major meltdown.
Step 2

Give your child permission to have a major meltdown. For example say, "Honey, I know you usually have a meltdown when this happens and I want you to know that it is ok for you to do that now."
Step 3

Prescribe what you expect your child to do

Prescribe the behaviors that your child usually does in this situation when agitated. You'll continue talking after telling your child it is ok to have a meltdown and list what the child normally does. "Honey, when you are feeling this way, you usually start swearing, kicking, screaming, and blowing snot so go ahead and get started."
Step 4

Let your child have a fit

Let your child think about what you said. If your child is truly oppositional, then she will refuse to do what you prescribed. If your child does it, that's ok, you gave permission. Eventually, doing this will help your child learn self-control.

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Luckelady said

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on 8/15/2008 I would like to know how giving permission for a child to lose control will eventually teach him or her to have self-control, as stated in the last paragraph. This is a natural question that the article provokes and might be a good addition to it.