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Step 1
Don’t give in to societal pressures to be a certain size. People come in different sizes. There are many Web sites dedicated to embracing a wide variety of body types. One such site is from the non-profit National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance, which focuses on eliminating size-based discrimination and expanding our society's conception of what is beautiful. Browse around this site for information and how you yourself can get involved in this movement.
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Step 2
Embrace your curves. Be confident and love your body. Get to know your body–what it looks and feels like, and when you feel the best.
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Step 3
Know your size. Don’t be embarrassed or worried about the size on the label of an article of clothing. If it doesn’t fit, there is no need to squeeze into something that doesn’t fit properly. Just move up a size or two until the article fits comfortably.
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Step 4
Find cute clothes that flatter. Don’t choose pieces that are too clingy. But do embrace your curves and find clothes that highlight all your best assets. For instance, If you have a chest that you want to play up but hips that you’d rather hide, opt for a low-cut wrap dress that ties just under the bust line. This variety will fall away from the hips and accentuate your upper half.
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Step 5
Find men that appreciate and seek out big and beautiful women. You could join the Big and Beautiful People Network at Bbpeoplemeet.com and browse people's profiles or set a profile up of your own. Another interesting site is Big-People-Personals. It is a networking site for those seeking support, friendship or dating. Babs Big and Beautiful, found at babsbbw.com, is a site created by a male admirer of big, beautiful women. It offers information and resources for dating and throws fun events for big women and their admirers to attend and let loose, such as exclusive dance parties and weekend trips. All these sites offer great resources for dating and networking and are very easy to navigate.
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EarthMother said
on 4/25/2009 How to Be a Big