How to Say I Love you Through Words and Action

Saying, "I love you," through words and actions helps to rekindle romance.

Sometimes life gets so busy we forget to nurture the relationships that mean the most to us. Yet nurturing those bonds is what keeps them strong. It's one thing to say, "I love you," but you may want to do more to show how much you appreciate your loved one. You don't need to buy extravagant gifts to prove your love. Many times, showing your love through words and actions requires no more than a little extra thoughtfulness.

Things You'll Need

• Patience
• Honesty
• Trust
• Respect
• Love

Instructions

1. Compliment your loved one. Tell her how nice she looks or how the dinner she cooked tasted so delicious. Complimenting the person you love shows her you don't take her for granted.

2. Go out of your way to do nice things. Help clean the house, buy a small gift or make an extra special dessert. Unexpected favors demonstrate your affection to the person you love.

3. Show compassion by offering words of support when your loved one is having a rough day. You don't necessarily need to give advice. Simply listen and let him know you are there for him.

4. Give the person you love your undivided attention when she talks to you. Look away from the television or put down your book to truly listen to your loved one. Giving the gift of attention shows that you indeed love her.

5. Engage in activities your loved one likes, even if you don't enjoy them. If she likes to dance, take her dancing. If your loved one enjoys watching football, watch a game on television or, better yet, buy tickets to see it live.

6. Hug and kiss the person you love to show your affection. In a romantic relationship, offer a back rub after your loved one has had a long day. Physical touch strengthens the bond between the two of you and shows the other person you love him, according to relationship coach Marie Madison.

7. Say, "I love you." It's simple, but effective.

Tips & Warnings

• This guideline can work not only for husbands and wives, girlfriends and boyfriends; it works for everyone. Mothers and their children. Friends.

• If you want relationships to work, aside from everything listed, learn to LISTEN

References

• University of Illinois Extension; Extension Connection; How Do You Communicate Love?; Angela Reinhart; February, 2011
• University of Arkansas Cooperative Extension Service; Division of Agriculture; Showing Love by Being Understanding
• Lady Love; Saying "I Love You" Without Words; Marie Madison