How to Arouse HIM by Arousing Yourself

Arouse HIM by arousing yourself for twice the turn on! Ever wonder about your man's innermost fantasies? Most men, whether they are willing to admit it or not, enjoy watching women pleasure themselves. Moreover, married men fantasize about their wives putting on a "show" just for them. You can do it, and you don't need help!

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Crotchless undies, or not
• Time
• An Audience of 1, him
• A whimsical imagination

1. 
    

   Ladies, if you've been married for awhile and want to re-ignite the passion in your relationship, it's important to show your husband that you still possess the flames that sparked his interest in you back in the day. Very few husbands would deny wanting their wives to put on a "show" just for their benefit. Let's begin shall we? First, it helps if he's relaxing and not really thinking about sex (if that ever happens in the male mind). Walk into the room and start undressing, slowly and deliberately so that you attract his attention.

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   On your mark...

   Next, begin a low throaty moan and rotating your neck as if to de-stress. Walk away as if nothing's happened. Go into the bathroom and take a shower. Towel dry. Sit next to him and begin rubbing lotion or oil all over your body, again slowly. All the while, avoiding eye contact with your man. You can even pretend, he's not in the room!

3. 
    
   Get Ready...

   After you've finished applying the skin lubricant, begin rubbing your breasts, lightly. Still not looking at him and ignoring the fact that he's obviously staring at you. If he speaks, don't respond. And...don't allow him to touch you. Give him the bedroom eyes and proceed to the next step.

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   It's on now...

   Move one hand to the "honeyspot" and begin a gentle, rubbing motion while slowly gyrating your hips and don't forget to moan (as if you can avoid it at this point). If you get too aroused in a horizontal or sitting position, stand up and place your back against the wall. By this time, your man should be at "full alert" and watching you intently.

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   Altogether now...

   After you've thoroughly aroused yourself and him. Invite him to join the game. Assign him one spot to touch and allow him to continue stimulation. This will induce full arousal and promote an extended session of whatever you want to come next.

Tips & Warnings

• You can record the session to add to your "how to" library"

Resources

• Be a Blowjobologist
• Drive Him Wild

[celticeagle]

on 12/24/2008 Great!

[jonnysgirl]

on 12/23/2008 I love your articles!!!