How to Spit Game to a Female

Approaching females can be a nerve racking task, especially when insecurities begin to kick in. Putting together the right approach to spit your game properly is what can be the difference between acceptance and rejection. With some coaching and persistence, you will be able to spit game to even the most intimidating females in any situation.

Difficulty:

Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need

• Appropriate clothing

1. Prepare what you will say. Using corny pick up lines is a no-no. Unless you have the gift of gab and can make these pick up lines funny, don't use them. Try to come up with something snazzy that fits your personality and can be spoken comfortably.

2. Dress to impress. This is especially true if you will be kicking your game face to face with a woman. Looking your best will also give you more confidence when you approach. No self-respecting woman wants someone who doesn't care about how they look to some extent. Be sure that you step your game up by elevating your personal appearance.

3. Time your approach. When in a real life situation, it is important to know exactly when to try to spit your game to a female. Try to avoid situations when a lady is with a group of her female friends. If you aren't quite confident with your game yet, you will more than likely be met with resistance by at least one of her friends. They also will likely make it harder for you. The best time to go spit game at a female is when she is by herself. She can focus on you in that situation and listen fully to what you have to say.

4. Speak with confidence. Acting sure of yourself is a very attractive quality. Be sure not to confuse confidence with cockiness or arrogance. This is a mistake all too common to men that can leave one spinning if rejected. Make eye contact when talking and speak with clarity. Good posture is also important as it sends positive signals through body language.

5. Go in for the kill. After you have peeped the general circumstances, now it is time to go spit your game. When walking over to her, keep your eyes fixed on her so she knows that she is the center of your attention. If she sees you coming, you have reached the point of no return and it is too late to back out.

6. Spit game. Now that you have gone in for the kill it is time to spit your game. Try a funny pick up line first to break the ice such as, "Girl, your feet must be tired because you have been running through my mind all day." Be sure that when you say this, she knows you are joking. Then simply introduce yourself, and tell her you just wanted to take this opportunity in this moment in time to meet her. Before she has the opportunity to say anything, tell her to wait just a second and let you have your moment. After a short pause, give her the permission to send you away if need be.

7. Make her feel special. Even if the girl knows that you are going to talk to someone after her or has seen you talking to other girls before her, every girl wants to feel special when you are talking to her. Point out something special about what she is wearing or a feature of her body. Give compliments without overdoing it. For instance, let her know that you like her style of dress or the way she walks. Do something, anything, to make her feel special at least for that moment.

8. Know when to throw in the towel. Remember that you cannot force someone to be responsive to your game no matter how tight it may be. If she is consistently giving you the cold shoulder, seems very uninterested or has rejected your approach in other ways--know when to quit. Don't push the issue. Pushing the issue will make you seem desperate and needy. Knowing when to be persistent and when to walk away can make all the difference.

9. Continue your newly acquired methods of spitting game to others. You will find the right match for you.

Tips & Warnings

• When approaching a female, having a gift of some sort will usually be met with appreciation and may open her ear more to what you have to say.

• Avoid approaching females with boyfriends or husbands since this may cause serious conflict.

Resources

• Read this Article in Spanish