How to Court a Woman in the Jewish Tradition
Those of Jewish descent and ethnic origin are blessed to have a religion and heritage that are steeped in tradition. In a world where little, if any, thought is given to custom, courting a woman in the Jewish tradition is a special way a man can show his love.The decision to follow traditional Jewish courtship rituals should come from a desire to prove your love and respect not only for the woman, but also the Jewish faith and culture.
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How to Court a Woman in the Jewish Tradition
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Discreetly let others know you are ready to begin a serious courtship, and ask them to introduce you to women whom they feel could be your future wife.
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Look for someone who shares your values and principles.
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Ask her female friends to share their feelings about her with you--but do not tell them you are dating, or intend to begin a dating relationship, as Jewish courtship tradition considers dating to a very personal, private thing.
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Spend time together in settings where you can easily talk to each other, and focus on what is being said. Jewish courtship involves a great deal of talking with each other. For this reason, going to the movies, concerts, or other places where talking is limited, if not downright impossible, is not suggested.
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Keep your hands to yourself. Jewish courtship tradition states that displays of affection only occur between married couples, and only in private situations.
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Do not “broadcast” the fact that you are dating. The majority of dating in Jewish circles is done secretly, so that if things do not work out, there is no awkwardness, because no one (or at least very few people) knew about it.
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When/if it becomes apparent that you are truly meant to be with this woman, continue the tradition by following the rules set forth within the Jewish religion for betrothal and marriage. Mazel tov!
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Tips & Warnings
Do not take the Jewish courtship ritual and traditions lightly. When you enter into a traditional Jewish courtship with a woman, it is meant to be done for the purpose of eventual marriage.
Jewish courtship should not be viewed as a “fling” or a “temporary” thing. It is meant to be taken very seriously.
