How to Catch Your Wife Cheating on the Internet

The Internet has made many things possible. After all, you can find just about anything online, even a date. The Internet has merged into a social atmosphere where individuals can go online to chat, register for dating services or even exchange photos. With so many opportunities, it’s no wonder the Internet has become an easy way for cheaters to cheat. With dedication and focus, if your wife is cheating on the Internet, you can bust her.

Instructions

1. Notice the signs. Usually there are signs if a spouse or significant other is straying. For example, if she suddenly seems less affectionate towards you or her interest in sex decreases, it is possible she is interested in someone else. If she is acting distant and gets defensive when you ask what is wrong, it is possible she is feeling guilty.

2. Observe her behavior. Think about how her behavior is now and how it was before. If you feel that there has been a dramatic change, observe her behavior and ask yourself some questions. For example, is she going through a tough time? How long has she been acting like this? The answers to those questions will help you put your situation into perspective.

3. Search for questionable instant messages. Since it’s likely the two of you are around each other often, occasionally pass by her computer. If you notice her closing windows and trying to distract you, it’s likely there is something she doesn’t want you to see. However, if she doesn’t seem to have a problem with your presence, it’s likely she is not cheating. Go with your gut feeling. If you believe you may have caught her at an “off” time, try it again and see what happens.

4. Notice changes in how she spends her time. If she suddenly changes her plans in order to make room for her online friends, something is out of the ordinary. If she’d rather chat online then cuddle with you, that isn’t a good sign. When that happens, try to encourage her to spend time with you. If she adamantly resists, it is quite likely she is cheating on the Internet.

5. Find the evidence. If you are convinced she is cheating and just can’t seem to catch her, do a little spying. If you share a computer at home, check the cookies in the computer. This will tell you what websites your wife has been visiting. It is possible that she knows how to cover her tracks. However, even the best slip up. Periodically check and see what you find. If you turn up with nothing, it’s likely she’s not doing anything.

6. Confront her. If you do discover evidence throughout any of the previous steps, it’s time to confront your wife. Tell her what you found and ask her to tell you the truth. Once she says what she has to say, the ball is in your court. You will want to make a decision based on how you feel. If you believe you can forgive her, consider going to counseling and ironing things out. However, if you feel the relationship is beyond repair it may be time to move on.

Tips & Warnings

• If you’re looking for information, don’t let your wife know until you are ready to confront her. If she suspects you are snooping, it’s likely that she will be extra cautious and you won’t find what you’re looking for.

• Don’t ignore your gut feelings. If you have a suspicion, there is a good reason for it.