How to LOVE YOUR WIFE

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By Raymond Finch
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Because there are so many divorces in this country alone I think it is about time one of the men of this world opened his mouth and set things strait. When you first met your wife you saw all of the wonderful things that you wanted in a woman. Then you decided to make a vow with GOD and your wife that you would have and hold until death do you part so help you God. Well when you gave those vows to the woman you love you also said to your creator that you would do this until death do you part. So what happened ? I will tell you what happened , this world is walking away from the very word that this country was founded on. Love is unconditional says the LORD. Statistic's show that 99% of all marriages that last until death do them part last because of a strong belief in the word of GOD not the belief in what the man of the house says or does. If the man of the house has a fear of GOD and CHRIST living in him he can and will do all of the rite things.With out the proper beliefs, wisdom and direction you can never really love your wife and you probably only lusted in the flesh for her.The Reason I say that loving your wife is challenging is because the foresees of darkness are against you at all times but through the blood of JESUS you will make it.

Difficulty: Challenging

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

A BIBLE,FAITH and LOVE

Step 1

Stop trying to salve her problems and just take the time to listen to her.
Never put your job or your hobby or anything else in front of her or your children.
Never and I mean Never return anger with anger you are the man not the ruler of the house.
Step 2

Never put your wife down, if you do get on your knees an ask for her forgiveness because man is no better than woman just stronger so he can protect her and no other reason.
Always tell her that you love her even when you see her with curlers in her hair and no makeup on.
Step 3

Love her unconditionally because you are commanded to do so by God him self and if you really love her you will do this. Care for her like you would your mother because she is the mother of your children.
Hold her in your arms every day so your words are confirmed through actions.

Tips & Warnings

I am not an expert on how to love your wife but I have read over 40 Christian based books on how to be a GODLY husband and father. I can say that changing your ways is not and will not be easy but through him who saved us all things are possible. I also know that this works because that is how I treat my wife now. I was in a marriage before and after 20 years we both gave up. When I became a Christian and started reading the bible I realized that the bible said not to do all of the things that I had been doing and the outcome was divorce. I could go on and on about all of this because I now have the wisdom but I wont.
If you are not a believer and filled with strife you will fail. If you are a believer don't think this is easy because it is SATINS desire to destroy your faith , love and your family. Pray for wisdom because GODS wisdom is all powerful. For those of you who do not believe in the higher power of a creator wake up before it is to late. May GOD bless all of you with his grace. All answers to life are found in the bible.