How to BE and MAKE a FRIEND for life

By Raymond Finch

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Being a friend can be the hardest thing a person can do in life. A friend is someone who would give his or her life for you. A friend is someone who will help you when you really need the help not when you want the help. A friend is someone who will give you words of encouragement and wisdom when you need them. A friend never uses negative, harsh or foolish words when you have made a mistake. A friend always forgives and forgets the mistakes another friend commits. A friend always returns a letter when one is written to them. A friend is always there to pick you up when you fall. You need to be and should be a friend to your wife, children, brothers, sisters, mother, father and every person that you meet in life because some day YOU WILL NEED A FRIEND.

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

  • You will need to be CHRIST LIKE and have a loving attitude toward all people.

Step1
Stop thinking it is all about you and what you want.
Stop wanting and start giving.
Stop and think about where you would like to be in life.
Step2
Start thinking about other people and their needs.
Start helping other people succeed in life.
Start loving people for what they are and who they are.
Step3
Stop judging people on their color.
Stop judging people on their ability to do what you think they should be able to do based on you own abilitys and pride.
Stop thinking that you are better than anybody because you are not.

Tips & Warnings

  • Read the bible! Read the BIBLE with an open mind because if you do not read the bible with an open mind you mite as well read it with closed eyes.
  • Think about all of what I have said! Think about HEAVEN and HELL! Think about the reality of if it is true. Will you burn forever or will you live forever the choice is your's. OPEN THE MIND AND HE WILL OPEN YOUR HEART

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Psalmist4M

Psalmist4M said

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on 7/28/2008 Love this article. Thanks for the straight talk. 5*s christianwomenconnect.com

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on 7/26/2008 Yep, if you don't have any "friends" or can't make any rather, some of the reasons could be you. Agree: stop doing everything you've been doing, reevaluate your ways and CHANGE. Thanks for sharing and helping open eyes to what friendship takes!

Tippy

Tippy said

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on 7/24/2008 Excellent advice.

Thanks for sharing.

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