Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Things You’ll Need:
- Patience
- Poker face
- Dedication
Step1
Patience- Be patient with your annoyer! You can't really tune them out if you're paying attention to them or if you're getting frustrated. Keep your cool even though they continue to speak with out you having to respond. Most importantly continue to do whatever you were doing or if you're watching tv (in my case) continue to listen to your favorite show.
Step2
Poker Face- Maintain a blank look as if they were talking by themselves. You'll hear the person say something like, "Oh he/she's too busy right now" or "He/She's not listening". If you're lucky they'll just leave you alone finally. If not then start phase 2...
Step3
Dedication- If you've made it this far then you should definitely follow through because it'll get worse if you buckle under pressure. You're decision to "tune people out" will not work the next time. Of course, like everything else, it takes some practice to get it down pat. Hopefully, you'll be in a better mood so that you won't have to tune people out...
Comments
amandaford said
on 7/25/2008 This is an important skill to learn. We can't always give our attention to people who want it. Sometimes we need to keep our energy for ourselves. As you said, if you tune people out correctly, you can keep your cool and get your point across without hurting the other person's feelings. Thanks for the tips!