Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Be respectful of other people's schedules. You may be seeking an immediate response, but your co-worker may be knee-deep in an important project or phone call and cannot instantly answer.
Step2
Make sure that your instant message is short and to the point. No one wants to have her work interrupted by a 300-word diatribe about the boss. Instant messages are meant for speedy, back-and-forth exchanges. If you need to have an in-depth conversation with a colleague, it is better to either call or stop by her desk.
Step3
When using instant messages at work, follow the rules of proper grammar. People often become too casual in their typing style when using instant messages. Remember, you are at work and need to remain professional.
Step4
Stay focused on what you are doing Many people will instant-message while doing other things. If you aren't completely focused on the instant message, it is easy to send the message to the wrong person, especially when you are messaging several people at the same time.
Step5
Keep in mind that some things do not translate well into the written word. Just like with email, some types of humor are not expressed well through instant messages. What you meant as a funny, sarcastic comment may be taken seriously by a co-worker.
Step6
Go with the flow After a 10-minute IM exchange with your manager, he writes, "Back to my work" and ends the conversation. Don't take offense at his brevity or perceived tone. Because IM involves quick volleys of conversation, it's easy to appear abrupt or rude when no offense is meant. Along the same lines, don't leave someone hanging: There's nothing more frustrating than having a five-minute IM conversation that ends with you waiting for a final response. Let the person on the other end know if you have to stop chatting.
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