How to French Kiss a Girl

French Kissing is an essential skill for any great lover. Make yours a work of art and dazzle her from the first kiss.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

1. CLEAN UP
   
   Take a long, hot shower and wash your hair. Use a strong deodorant to prevent body odor. Floss between your teeth. Brush well. Use mouthwash. Apply a small amount of cologne. Smelling good is a big plus, but not too much. Excessive odor can give women headaches and that is NOT sexy.

2. BREATH MINTS
   
   Not gum! Breath mints! Not cinnamon or fruit, but MINT. Always carry breath mints when you think you might kiss. Use them throughout your time with your girl, not just before kissing. She'll be smelling your breath long before the kissing starts. Bad breath can kill a good kiss before it even happens. Choose a small breath mint-- one that will fit under your tongue. Find a sly way to slip one into your mouth. Your mouth should be fresh and inviting. Even a fairly clean mouth get stale and unpleasant without the occasional mint. Before you start working up to the kiss, slip one under your tongue and let it dissolve. When the time comes to kiss, your mouth will be ready.

3. GET PERMISSION!
   
   Before you move in for a kiss, you need to have permission. It will make the kiss more enjoyable for both of you. Kissing a girl who doesn't want it is about the same as assaulting her. Make sure you have her permission. Say something like, "I want to kiss you, but I don't know if you want me to." Or, "I really want to kiss you right now." If she objects or says nothing, forget the kiss for the moment. Just keep talking for a while and ask again later. If she says that it would be OK, move on to step #4.

4. APPROCH SLOWLY
   
   You don't want to rush in for the kiss. There's nothing sexy about being swallowed whole. Instead, tease her a little. Move in slowly. Hesitate before your lips touch. Build the excitement for her by delaying the kiss a little. When you start to kiss, give a gentle kiss with your mouth closed. Pull back, pause for a moment. The anticipation will help draw her out of her shell.

5. WAIT, WAIT, WAIT!
   
   Pull your lips an inch or two from hers. Wait to see if she leans in or pulls away. If she pulls away, drop the kissing for a while. If she leans in for more, give her little teaser kisses. Always leave her wanting more.

6. OPEN UP
   
   If she responds by leaning in for more kissing, let her lead for a moment. Open your mouth slightly, but don't slip any tongue yet. Let her be the first to introduce the use of tongue. After she uses her tongue, you are free to use yours as well.

7. THE TONGUE
   
   Once she has slipped YOU the tongue, you are free to do the same to her. Never too much! Remember, you want her to want more. Too much tongue will make her wish the kiss would end so she can breathe. Play it cool. Just a little tongue. Gently meet her tongue with yours and then withdraw. Try again. Try swirling your tongue around hers. Just briefly. Then withdraw and give more little kisses. Move in for more French kissing, but remember, keep it brief. Give her time to breathe and want more.

8. You may be thinking that a passionate French kiss includes a strong embrace. WRONG!!!! Wrapping your girl in an octopus hug is never good. It's overwhelming. Remember, you are trying to build excitement, not smother her. Don't reach for her breasts. Don't grip her in your arms. Instead, put your hands on hers. Gently touch the side of her face. You want her to want more, not look for an escape.

9. THANK HER
   
   When the kiss is over, pull back. It's vitally important to thank her. But you need to do it with style. Not, "Thank you for letting me kiss you." Instead, "Thank you. That was beautiful." Or, "Thank you. I've wanted to do that all night." Or, "Thank you. I'll sleep better now."

Tips & Warnings

• Remember the goal is not to swallow her whole.
• Go easy, slowly, let her want more.
• Don't be too aggressive initially. Let her lead. She will.

[jojoe]

on 9/9/2009 very nice article