How to Place Names with Faces

Few things are more embarrassing that trying to remember somebody's name when a person you've met once comes over to you and initiates a conversation. Perhaps the person remembers you fondly or had a great introduction. You follow the conversation, and you try not to appear as clueless as you are. However, the time may come when you are expected to say his name. Not knowing it can lead to embarrassment for the both of you. Here is how you can alleviate that pain. It's possible to place names with faces of people you've only just met.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Repeat someone's name back when introduced. Let's say you are named John, and you are being introduced to someone named Olivia. After the initial introduction, say, "Well, Olivia..." Continue the conversation after having been clear on establishing both of your names.

2. Bring someone's name up as much as possible in the first conversation that you have with her. You are repeating it to yourself, and it will become a memory. That helps keep the name in your mind when you see her face once again.

3. Try to focus when you are introduced to someone. Observe everything about the person.Take notice of their height, weight, build, hair color, eye color and overall demeanor.Taking the time to pay true attention to a new acquaintance is imperative to remembering who he is in the future.

4. Play word association. Think of a word that reminds you of that person, but make sure it either starts with the same letter or rhymes with the name of the person. A word association that could be used is as follows: Fine Ryan, Smiley Sadie, Brisk Brenda, Energized Eric, Tall Paul,or Giant Jessie. Your imagination is the key here. Making up associations that link the name to the face is a very safe bet that you will remember a name upon your next encounter.

5. Keep a journal. Write down the details of when you meet someone. Thinking about the new introduction and your impressions of a person after just meeting him will make almost certain that the face and person stick out in your memory in the future. Something noteworthy enough to write about is suddenly made memorable.

6. Ask the person who did the introductions for more details about the person once he has stepped aside. Finding out more information will make a person seem more memorable as well.

Tips & Warnings

• Keep trying these steps upon new introductions. They will truly work once they are put into practice.
• Don't guess at somebody's name if you do not know it. It's best to remain silent on calling him by name, or simply explain your situation with tact. Always place the blame on you so that the new potential friend doesn't feel unremarkable.