How to Buy Cologne for Men

Thanks to the acceptance of the metrosexual sensibility, men’s fragrances have become a staple item of a modern man’s grooming kit and although men have become more savvy on what to buy, choosing a fragrance that excites both you and your man, can be a diplomatic juggling act. This article will give you six easy steps to help you choose a cologne that is right for your man and pleasing to your olfactory preferences as well.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. Be a snoop. This goes against all the rules of dating here, but you need to be a bit of a Sherlock Holmes on this one. For the love of Pete, ladies, do not be lazy and ask one of his friends and or relatives. Do this yourself by looking in his grooming kit, medicine cabinet or bedroom. Men love the direct approach. So, the most obvious and smooth move is when he is wearing a scent you like, snuggle up to the big lug and in a gushing and admiring tone, simply ask him about the scent that is driving you wild. He’ll tell you and then you simply go for the easy score and buy the same fragrance. But, you may be asking, what if you do not like the scent he is wearing and or, perhaps you would like to broaden his palette to incorporate other fragrances. Well, this is going to require some well executed feminine diplomacy.

2. Simple is always safe so, come right out and suggest an alternative fragrance. Most men hate it when you beat around the bush, so suggest that the two of you go on a ‘fragrance‘ safari on your dime. In other words, take your man to your favorite store and have him go through the same ritual that you go through when you are buying for yourself or your friends. Even the most macho of men, may be up for something that is unique to his normal routine. Once you are at the counter, you will need to let him have some space to experiment.

3. Let him ask the questions. This is where you need to let him explore his options. The counter associate will be familiar with the fragrance he is currently using and suggest either a complimentary or opposing type of fragrance to the one he is using. After some interaction with the associate, you may want to suggest a fragrance that enhances his lifestyle. For example, one for business and one for play and weekends, perhaps even an evening cologne for those special nights with you. This will show you care and are interested in complimenting his grooming towards his professional and social needs.

4. Be supportive. You do not want him going towards something that is too musky or fruity, if this is not suitable for him. Do unto others here and pay attention. After all you are the hostess of the safari. Let him and the associate try a few fragrances, however do not let them stray away from what works for him. Let's be honest, there will only so many attempts as the olfactory nerves will get overloaded and all the scents begin to smell the same, so you do no want to overdue it and ruin the safari with wasted attempts.

5. Give your honest opinion. If you do not like a fragrance, simply say so. He’ll appreciate you for it. At this point your interaction is important as you do not want him to walk out of the store not achieving the goal.

6. Be sensitive to the bottom line. Do not push him towards a fragrance that is out of your price range, no matter how much you like it. Even though this is your gift to him, he’ll appreciate your attention to the bottom line. Most men do.

Tips & Warnings

• Honesty is the best policy.
• Pay attention to the bottom line.
• Do not push your agenda too quickly, let him ask the questions.

Resources

• A website dedicated to the sale of men's fragrances