How to Hide an Affair

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By Cathy Pelekakis
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You are in a relationship that has somehow fallen to the side. You are not the same person that you were when you entered your relationship. You have found someone who you attracted to and is not your spouse. You are about to have an affair. You are conflicted and want to hide the affair from your significant other.

Difficulty: Challenging

Instructions

Step 1

You have to learn how to lie. And when you lie you have to lie with a straight face and make it a convincing lie. You have to make up a story that is believable. Tell your significant other that you are going out with your girlfriends for the evening. Make sure that you have at least one girlfriend that will be willing to lie for you and cover for you. Throw her name out at your significant other and then go and meet your lover on the side.
Step 2

Have dinner in a secluded out of the way restaurant that is not in your home area. Arrange to meet your lover at a small restaurant that no one knows you, knows anyone in your family or knows your husband.
Step 3

Call him from a public phone not your cell phone, and never have him call your cell phone. If he calls you never have him call you at home. If you need a signal that it is your lover, have him call the house one time then hang up immediately. That way you will know that it is your lover on the phone and he is waiting for you. The numbers on a cell phone bill can be checked on line by your husband. You do not want to let him know that you are getting phone calls from someone else.
Step 4

Come home at a reasonable hour, if you stay out too late without good cause or a really good excuse or alibi then you will be caught. Arrange to rendezvous with your lover at an out of the way motel and do not use your credit card to pay for the bill.
Step 5

Keep your relationship with your lover on the quiet side and do not tell too many people because it is bound to get back to your husband.
Step 6

Shower after you have made love to your lover, you do not want to go home with the cologne of another man on you. Make sure that you do not have passion marks on your body that your husband did not put there.
Step 7

Still have a sexual relationship with your husband on a regular basis, if you change your habits with him then he will become suspicious and know in his soul that you are cheating on him.

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john-knee said

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on 1/26/2009 Want to hide your affair and use sites like the ones listed above? Google "affair tips" and you'll find a site that will pretty much help you cheat and not get caught. Good luck!