Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
This is a great time to be a better you. Go back to school; learn something new that you have always wanted to know. You have the time. Invest it in yourself.
Step2
Take great care of yourself. Use that extra time when you are not taking care of someone else to indulge yourself. Do full body mud masks, manicures, pedicures, bubble baths or anything else where you can pamper yourself.
Step3
Listen to music, dance around the house, and sing out loud. You can make a complete fool of yourself and no-one knows. It is great!
Step4
Learn how to salsa or ballroom dance. It gives you a chance to get close, but not too intimate.
Step5
Get involved in a singles adventure club. They go and do different adventurous activities without any pressure on hooking up. It puts you in touch with people who are enjoying their alone time as well.
Step6
Get a bike or motorcycle. Learn to ride. Take long rides and enjoy yourself.
Step7
Take your girl/guy friends on a fun vacation.
Step8
Get an IPOD or MP3 and listen to your favorite music often.
Step9
This is the perfect time to join a gym.
Step10
Go do karaoke. It is fun and playful and gets you out and about.
Step11
Go to dance clubs and use your newly learned dance skills.
Step12
Learn to cook or bake some really detailed recipes. Have fun!
Step13
Read books, relax, and take an art class. These are all activities that feed the mind.
Step14
Get to know yourself. Learn about your astrological sign, investigate your personality type. All of these things will be helpful with self growth.
Step15
Keep it light and fun. Do not rush back into a relationship. Sometimes the best times are when we are by ourselves. You can be your own best company. Try it! You might find you like it!
Comments
krnd said
on 8/24/2008 you mentioned everything but sex. help w/ that.
taskeinc said
on 8/6/2008 Been single for the past 9 years, guess I need to try some of your suggestions...
Cherst1031 said
on 8/3/2008 Great suggestions! I want more friends like you!
Haoie said
on 7/27/2008 Guess it's not all doom and gloom for singles.
jmessina10 said
on 7/26/2008 Very good suggestions.