Step1
Is your hair an unkempt mess? Do you have an untamed beard or moustache, does your breath smell like a sandwich shop. Yes, hygiene is important, unless your content on being a slob, then don't expect to attract a hygienic woman. Some men might be able to get away with bad hygiene and still attract the ladies, but bad hygiene is still a turn off for any woman, no matter how attractive they find you. A final tip on hygiene, don't use antiperspirant, use deodorant that dosen't contain antiperspirant. Your armpits are a powerhouse producer of pheromones, your bodies natural sex panther cologne. So sadly, using antiperspirant blocks your sweat glands natural ability to rid itself of toxins, and to waft off your love scent. So, trash the antiperspirant, and just use deodorant around the outside rim of your armpit. If you use cologne, just use one squirt, don't gag people with cologne showers.
Step2
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How do you dress? Pick out clothes that you like, they say something about your personality, make sure they are fitting clothes. Dress like an adult, wear semi-professional attire. You don't need a suit, nice slacks, or even a button up dress shirt. You don't have to spend a lot of money either. Women like the way some men dress, but most women could care less on how much money you spent on your clothes. Shop at Wal-mart, Target, J.C. Penny's, Sears, or any place that has bargain prices. Take a woman with you shopping, get their opinion. Take a woman's idea of what she likes on a man, and mix it up with your taste, your likely to come out with a style, that women like, while still looking like a man. Don't make the mistake of letting a woman pick out all your clothes, unless your looking to attract gay men.
Step3
What will make you attract women the most, aren't your clothes, a car, or even how attractive they find you. It's your personality, don't try too hard to impress women. Just be yourself, if you love who you are, and are sure of where you are going in life, then you will exude a confidence about yourself. Don't get confidence confused with cockiness, cockiness is a facade masking an insecurity. Confidence, is just the opposite, it's when your sure about yourself, and accepting of who you are. When you love yourself, your not afraid to be yourself around anybody, and when you let people see the real you, women find that far more sexier than any other trait.
Step4
One last helpful hint that will attract women to you, is to flirt. You might have noticed, that one year you barely have known any women at all, except maybe a couple close friends that you have no romantic interest in. Then at a different time in your life, you might have dated three women at the same time, and have women checking you out at the grocery store.
So what has changed? What makes a lot of women attracted to you at one point in your life, and what left you high and dry at other times? What's the difference from a year ago when you had no women, and today where you have women knocking on your door, because they find you a hot commodity?
It's flirting, flirting just isn't all in fun. It's healthy for you and the women you flirt with. If your being a respectful adult about it, and their enjoying the flirting also.
If you can joke around, and make a woman smile, you've just flirted with them, flirting dosen't have to be sexual. It's a really easy skill to have that will pay off big in the long run. Flirting gives you confidence, and when other women see you flirting with a woman, this sparks a sort of primal jealousy instinct in women that makes you more interesting. Flirting, releases dopamine in the brain. So what girl wouldn't want to talk to you, if your truly are making her day, by getting her to smile and laugh. Women want to feel desired, even if you have no romantic interest in the woman your flirting with, and she has no romantic interest in you, flirting is still a great way to make a bond between friends, she will be flattered that your giving her so much attention, and this will be a big confidence booster for yourself.
Step5
Just try to be friends with a lot of women, the more women you know, are comfortable around, and can flirt with, the more confident you become. Here's a secret I'll tell you, it's a phrase I coined. Be a flirtatious jerk.
I'm not telling you to be a real jerk, which any woman can spot a mile away. I'm telling you that women don't like overly sensitive nice guys, they are a big turn off to women. Why? It's a lack of confidence in ones self, overly sensitive nice guys are unsure about themselves.
Women want a guy that values himself, not an insecure person who places all their value in the one woman they want. So be a flirtatious
jerk. Don't be a real jerk, just flirt with women, and make fun of them at times, all in good fun, don't insult them. Just crack a funny joke about them the minute you notice something dorky about them.
Yes, all women are dorks, no matter how much money they have, how professional their job is, or how nice and classy they dress.
Also remember to flirt with a group of women, if your out with some friends, and there are more than two or three women in the group your with. Flirt with them all, they will all find you incredibly sexy if you be yourself, are a nice, respectable, flirtatious jerk, and you show an interest in them all, not just one.
Comments
charliealpha said
on 8/7/2008 Nice One!
alienangel555 said
on 7/25/2008 Its all good advice. 5 stars.