How to Give a Boy a Massage

You will learn how to give your man the best massage ever. The best part is that you don't have to leave the house. Read on to learn how to give a boy a massage.

Instructions

1. A massage is always relaxing after a hard day at work. To start get your boy in a relaxing mood upon coming home to receive the massage. Light candles, dim the lights or blinds and put on some relaxing music. Jazz is always relaxing and soothing to the ear. Have towels near you in the event that you need them afterwards. Order take-out for a romantic dinner if you have the time. You wouldn’t want to work on an empty stomach do you?

2. When that boy walks through the door give him a kiss on the cheek and tell him that today is his spa day. If you don't have a massage table that is fine. Just use the sofa or bed. It will make a comfortable massage area. We all have to improvise sometimes. Be sure to silence all cell and land line phones. No interruptions are wanted.

3. Remove your boy’s shirt and instruct him to lie on your massage area stomach down and face to the side if you don’t have a massage table. Now is the time to become creative. There are several types of lubricants that can be used. Just remember not to get a water- based lubricant because they will become sticky once applied and dried. The best thing to use is massage oil. You can buy them scented or unscented the choice if up to you. You are giving the massage to your man so be creative. There are some that warm when applied to the body to prevent your male from having cold oil applied to his back.

4. Apply the oil to his back. Use the amount that you feel is necessary. Just be sure that you don’t use too much to where it is dripping off of the body. A few drops in your hands should be fine. Start by rubbing the oil on your boy’s lower back then work up to his neck. Use firm pressure. Let him tell you if he wants more pressure. Use your entire hand including all of your fingers. There are several techniques that can be used. Search online for massage tips to find some that are easy to do.

5. Start kneading. To do this massage technique on your boy, make a fist and use it to make circles on his back. Starting from the middle of his spine outward on both sides of his back. When approaching the neck muscles apply less firmness and more firmness when massaging the shoulder and upper back. Be sure to massage the muscles deep. Complete steps above for 10 to 15 minutes. By this time he should be asleep.