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How to Make a Man Fall in Love

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By Kendra Dahlstrom
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Men and women are from different planets. While women have one idea about love, men have quite another. Many women become clingy and overbearing because that is what they would want their men to do. Instead of making that man love her, however, it drives him further and further away. There are ways to make a man fall in love, but it is definitely not by force. You cannot force a man to love you, but you can absolutely encourage the love. There are certain characteristics that most men find irresistible. This article will show you exactly what to do to make a man fall in love with you.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
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Things You'll Need:

  1. Step 1

    Laugh at his jokes. Most people love to feel amusing. If you make your man feel good about himself, and you let him know that you think he's funny, he will love spending time with you.

  2. Step 2

    Plan a get together with friends at least every other day. Have your own life. Make room for your man, but don't push your friends out of the way for him. A man falls in love with a woman who isn't head over heels for him. It gives him something to work for and something to chase. Men love the chase and the fantasy, so let him chase you. According to AttractYourMan.com, being ambiguous is one of the best ways to make a man fall in love.

  3. Step 3

    Ask him questions about his life. Most people love talking about themselves. A good listener makes a good lover. Practice listening more and talking less. If you make a man feel good when he is with you, he will want to be with you more and more.

  4. Step 4

    Try his hobbies on for size. If your man loves to hunt, go to baseball games, fish, ski, or go boating. Men love women who try new things, especially if those new things are activities he loves to do. CBS News even states that the best way to refresh your loving bond is to try new things.

  5. Step 5

    Achieve your own dreams and aspirations. Women are irresistible when they have goals and actually achieve those goals. Go to school, strive for that promotion, interview for a new job, anything that allows you to get closer to your dream. Men love success and successful women.

Tips & Warnings
  • Love yourself and men will fall into line waiting to love you. No man can resist a woman who loves herself.
  • Don't wait by the phone for any man to call. Have fun with your life and he will call.

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angeleyes2 said

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on 9/28/2009 With some men it don't matter what you do he is hard to get.

elijah79 said

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on 9/14/2009 gosh women think they know what men have on their minds!! gals forget love-yourself attitude - sincerity, honesty and kindness will get any man you want (if he liked your looks in the first place). BE YOURSELF - the best solution. good luck!!!

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on 9/5/2009 i like

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