Things You'll Need:
- Safe sex supplies
- Food or snacks
- Room for guests
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Step 1
Buy the supplies you will need ahead of time. Plan on providing latex or plastic gloves, dental dams and condoms as well as all kinds of lube for your guests. Have the safer sex supplies out in the open and easily accessible all over the party area.
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Step 2
Send out invitations by email through your group of friends. Make the list selective so that you have an idea of who might be coming. Plan ahead of time to make sure that the party is not composed primarily of single men. If a single man wants to come, tell him that he needs to bring a female friend. Require RSVPs before you give out the address so that you can be sure that there are no surprises.
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Step 3
Make or order food before the event starts, or let guests know well ahead of time that the event will be a potluck.
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Step 4
Encourage socialization with games like spin the bottle and other romantic and fun games. Make sure there are lots of cozy places for couples or groups to settle in and enjoy one another when things start to become intimate.
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Step 5
Create the mood for romance with dimmed lights or candles, soft music playing in the background, and no interruptions such as cell phones.














