How to Rekindle Your Sex Life

In any couple’s relationship, there is usually a time where you feel as though the fire in your sex life needs to be rekindled. Many couples have no idea where to begin in this process, but surprisingly it’s not as difficult as you may think to kick up your sex life a notch. Not only does it heat things up in the bedroom, but it also helps to strengthen the bond in the relationship.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

1. Have more spontaneous, spur of the moment sex. Some couples plan when they’re going to have sex with their significant other, whether it be times or days, and while that’s fine, spontaneous sex usually has more fire to it because it’s having sex when the mood strikes instead of waiting for the clock to strike 9:00 p.m. on a Thursday evening. Sex with your significant other isn’t something that you should just check off in your appointment book.
2. Have a quickie if you can’t have a long sex session. Sex doesn’t always have to last for a long time; sometimes all you have time for is a short, quick session. Just make sure that quickies don’t make up the majority of your sex life.
3. Have skin to skin contact that doesn‘t involve sex. After awhile of being in a relationship, some couples seem to forget how to do this with each other. When you give your significant other a massage, kiss the back of their neck as you’re walking past or even just hold their hand. That quick form of skin to skin contact can really turn them on.
4. Help out around the house more and be a better partner to your significant other. There are many times when aggravations, big and little, can affect the sex drive of the other person. Making small simple adjustments will not only rekindle your sex life, but it will also help to make the bonds of the relationship stronger because neither person will feel as though they are being taken for granted or that they’re unappreciated.
5. There’s no need to have sex just in the bedroom. There’s many places for you to have sex that aren’t so basic, mundane and boring. Use your imagination or ask your significant other for places that they always wanted to have sex, but never did.
6. Be willing to step out of your comfort zone and give new ideas a try. Whether it’s trying a new position or having sex in an unusual spot, being open to trying new things in sex will help to rekindle and spice up your sex life.