Things You'll Need:
- New clothes
- Lingerie
- Manicure or pedicure
- Bubble bath
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Step 1
Buy yourself some new clothes. You will feel sexier if you are comfortable in what you are wearing. Buy some new shirts, pajamas, underwear and pants. You might even want to get another bra. New clothes that fit you will help you feel sexier than trying to fit in your pre-pregnancy or maternity clothes. While buying new clothes can be fun, be sure you don’t go into debt doing it.
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Step 2
Get pampered. Ask your spouse to give you a massage and use some of your favorite oil. You might also think about going to the salon and getting a manicure or pedicure. Sometimes a bubble bath hits the spot. Play some soft music, set up some candles and put some bath salts in your bubble bath. Now, sit back and relax.
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Step 3
Talk to your spouse. Be sure you express your feelings to your spouse. This will help build the intimacy between you and your spouse and he will also have a better understanding of the way you feel and how to best respond to you.
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Step 4
Get ready for the day. Take a shower, put on your makeup and do your hair. Now that you have a new baby, you are going to be super tired and super busy. Taking a shower and getting ready for the day will help you feel sexier and your spouse will love the way you look and that you are taking care of yourself.
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Step 5
Get a new haircut and color. You will feel sexier with a new haircut and a new look. Even if you just opt for a trim with some subtle highlights, you'll feel like a whole new you.
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Step 6
Dress up and go out for dinner. Call the babysitter to watch your child for a few hours. Sit down with your spouse at a romantic, quiet restaurant and enjoy your time together. Enjoy a delicious meal and quality time with your special man.
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Step 7
Understand that it takes time. It is frustrating to look down at your once flat tummy and see a bunch of loose saggy skin there. Remember, it took fo40 rty weeks for you to grow a child and your body stretched to accommodate the baby. It is going to take more than a few days to get back your old figure. Love your body as it is and you'll feel sexier.
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Step 8
Surprise your spouse. Let him know when you are ready to be intimate. It is suggested that you wait until at least six weeks after childbirth. However, it is based more on when the woman feels ready. You can make love early in the morning (before the kids wake up), when the kids are napping, or after the kids have gone down to bed.
