How to Have Safe Anal Sex

Anal sex is the practice of inserting the penis into the rectum rather than into the vagina. For some couples, anal sex is a way to keep things fresh and to experiment with a willing partner while for others it might be connected to a fetish. Whatever the case, anal sex presents a unique set of hazards that can be avoided if you practice safe intercourse.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Oil-less lubricant
• Condom

1. Evacuate the bowels approximately one hour before you engage in anal sex. This reduces the chances of spreading bacteria during anal intercourse, and will ensure that the anal cavity is as clean and empty as possible for the act.

2. Take a long bath before having anal intercourse. You can use mild antibacterial soap to clean just inside the anal cavity, but this isn't always necessary. It is more important to ensure that the rectum is clean and free of debris for safe anal sex.

3. Visit your doctor for STD tests before you have anal sex. Some STDs spread faster and more easily through anal intercourse than through other types of sex, and it is always best to know that you are free of any diseases. Insist that your partner receive similar tests so that you can engage in sex without worry.

4. Determine a "safety word." This word, which can be as random as "duck" or "sofa", should be used by the recipient of anal sex if the pain becomes too great. With a safety word, you never have to worry that you are hurting your partner or that either one of you is too uncomfortable to continue. If the pain does become too much for you to handle, use the safety word immediately.

5. Apply a generous amount of lubricant to both the anal cavity and to the penis before you attempt anal sex. One of the major hazards of this type of intercourse is the potential for abrasion, bruising and even lacerations of the rectum, which can lead to severe complications. Lubricant will reduce the friction that causes these abrasions and will make the act much more comfortable.

6. Use a condom. Even married or monogamous couples should use protection for anal intercourse because of the danger of spreading bacteria.

7. Maintain constant communication. Since anal sex can be a painful experience for the recipient, it is important that you talk to your partner during the act itself. A safety word can help stop intercourse if it becomes too painful, but providing reassurance will make it a more pleasurable experience for both parties involved.

Tips & Warnings

• Even if the condom is already lubricated, additional lubricant is necessary for anal sex.
• Always apply a new condom if transitioning between anal and vaginal or oral sex.
• Avoid anal sex if either partner is suffering from any type of bacterial or viral infection.
• Discontinue anal sex if abrasions or lacerations occur until they have fully healed.

Resources

• How To Experiment with Anal Sex

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[betterworld]

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[ullukakan]

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