How to Survive a Class Reunion

Сlass reunions often generate lots of mixed feelings in those attending. While it may be nice to see old friends, it may also be hard to realize that some people look much better than you or are much more successful. Surviving a class reunion may seem like a hard task, but it’s definitely possible if you know what to do.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. Look your best. It may be too late to lose those last 10 pounds, but you could try for one or two. Getting a new haircut, having your teeth whitened and buying a new dress or suit that fits perfectly can also help.

2. Make a list of your accomplishments. You won’t be reciting from the list at the reunion party, but it will certainly help to have some things in mind that you’re particularly proud of. Don’t think only about career. Instead, try to remember trips to foreign lands, family milestones, the new house you just bought or the prize you won at the local poetry contest. Even if you don’t get to talk about these things, having them in mind will help you feel better when others start boasting.

3. Focus on the people at the reunion that you do want to see, especially those you lost touch with over the years. This is the main reason you’re going to the party in the first place, and should be your focal point once you’re there. If you feel comfortable moving around and talking to everybody, do so, but feel free to come back to the group you feel safest with.

4. Relax. Smile. Arrive neither too late or too early, so you don’t become the center of attention. Once there, mingle and chit chat and avoid getting into serious discussions or talking about uncomfortable situations from the past.

Tips & Warnings

• Take a camera with you. Even if you don’t think you’ll want to take photos, you may change your mind once you get there.