Show examples of you or your spouse using the toilet for both number 1 and 2. Try to exaggerate using facial emotions to show how pleasant it is to use it.
Step2
Get a potty training book with vivid colors and drawings that show a toddler using a toilet. The book should not have much words as it will detract from the pictures. It's like that old saying, a picture is worth a thousand words.
Step3
Remove diapers and have your toddler wear cotton underwear. After he/she has done once in the underwear, the unpleasant feeling of wet underwear will give him/her added incentive to go in the toilet the next time. Sometimes, the toddler may continue to do #2 in the underwear. In that case, take off the underwear and it should help to let the toddler know that there is nothing to catch the poop, and hence, he/she should go in the toilet.
Step4
It may not work for all toddlers, but you could also try incentives such as little prizes (e.g., stickers, lollipop, etc.) when he/she goes on the toilet. You can also keep a chart on the wall next to the toilet to let your little one know of his/her progress; for example, with 3 successful uses of the toilet, a prize is given.
Step5
To reinforce good behavior, alsways clearly praise the child whenever he/she uses the toilet. Clap, pat him/her on the back, and use words of praise and encouragement (e.g., good boy/girl, I'm so proud, etc.).
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kim82600 said
on 10/8/2008 Thanks for the ideas!