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How to EASILY become more attractive

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By Daniel B
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Don't complicate yourself by figuring out impressive ways to get the opposite sex's attention. Read these tips and easily become much more attractive.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Your brain
  • Will Power
  • Drive
  • A bit of money
  1. Step 1

    Get in shape: Any guy can get any girl, yes, this is true. But, it doesn't help your game if your overweight or scrawny. This doesn't mean turn into a meathead muscle machine but get yourself into a routine, the internet is a huge resource to find out information about getting into the perfect shape. Hell, if you don't do it for the women, do it for yourself. Your body deserves to be treated correctly. Run, jog, swim, lift weights, watch what you eat, stop smoking cigs, don't drink as much, don't do drugs as much. A woman loves a man who is physically attractive, once again, your body isn't going to get you the girl, your brain and what you say is. But it will surely HELP. Hell, if you really need help, message me and I'll help you out.

  2. Step 2

    Get the correct amount of sleep: Doing so will not only improve the way you look, it will improve your memory and all other brain functions. In turn, making you wittier, funnier, cockier, WHATEVER. Also...it will keep you from getting sick. I can't tell you how many girls I've blown it with cause I was sick and gave it to them. Its such a turn off, both ways.

  3. Step 3

    Change your hairstyle: Go for something new, if it doesn't work, it'll freaking grow back. Don't go for the run of the mill buzz-cut or slicked hair. Go to the barber shop and look in a magazine and find something. Trust me, it'll work. Facial hair as well, grow out some sideburns, cut them off, grow a goatee, cut it off, go clean shaved, or try looking scruffy. You'll find something that works for you.

  4. Step 4

    Get some new clothes: As much as I don't like buying into the fashion world, girls do. So get some new outfits, even if it isn't your style, you'd be surprised what a couple new threads will do for your confidence and the ladies love it, even if you don't. Besides they will be on your floor soon enough.

  5. Step 5

    Educate yourself: Instead of spending 3 hours a day sitting in the PUA forums and reading new canned methods. Pick up a book, newspaper, or internet article and educate yourself. Women love smart men, thats a fact. You don't have to be an Einstein, I've heard countless guys whining "my life is boring, I don't have anything to talk about, blah blah blah". This is in your hands, you'll have plenty to talk about if you just read 3 books on psychology, history, science, current events, or whatever else you find intriguing. Reading not only furthers your knowledge, it enhances your vocabulary, which again you don't need to be Webster's dictionary, but eliminating "that sucks" and "cool..." and "nice..." and "kinda..." other countless boring words from your speech and replacing them with advanced words makes you more attractive. You can count on that. In addition, reading will further your ability to speak properly and aid in your grammar. Nobody likes to be around the guy that says "like" and "uhhh..." and other filler words every 15 seconds when he is speaking. You wanna be attractive? Intelligence is one quality EVERY SINGLE GIRL will list when asked about what they look for in a guy. Its not that hard, seriously.

  6. Step 6

    Mirror effective personalities: Now, don't be a mirror of effective personalities...but mirror their good qualities and add them to your arsenal. Whether its a T.V. character who has a good cocky/funny attitude or someone you meet who you just thought was an interesting person. Nobody on this Earth is a completely original person, everything we say and do is picked up by others, usually subconsciously. So be conscious of it, and you'll find great success. For example, I mirrored many of the qualities that a character named Dr. Cox on the T.V. Show Scrubs displays.

  7. Step 7

    Work on your manners: I have seen dozens upon dozens of random guys and even my friends blow it with a gorgeous girl because they didn't cover their mouth when they sneezed or coughed. Say Bless you, Thank you, Your welcome, Hold doors open for people, let someone walk in front of you instead of being the jerk who pushes through. There are dozens of common courtesies that many people just forget to do. At the end of the day, a girl wants a man she can be proud to be around, and one that will treat her with the respect she deserves. Don't lose your cocky attitude or whatever your gameplan is, but be a genuinely respectful person and it will surely pay off. Super way of show how classy you're.

  8. Step 8

    Interesting General Facts: Learn interesting facts of all types. If you meet a girl from Alaska, "Did you know that the Alaskan coastline makes up more than half of the entire US coastline?" I met a woman from Rio de Janeiro, Brazil the other night and told her how much I loved the statue of Christ the Redeemer that sits atop the Corcovado Mountain and how beautiful the view is looking down into the city. She was absolutely stunned that I even knew that it was there, I didn't even have to tell her that I have never actually been there. She was too busy drowning in my words as I continued the conversation. Simple stuff like this will separate you from the other 100 guys she sees and meets that day.

Tips & Warnings
  • Develop a small knowledge on the following areas:
  • Astrology: Pick up a couple books on astrology (I recommend Sextrology and Astrologically Incorrect for Lovers). Learn your sign and the general details on womens signs, you won't need to learn any other guy ones obviously. What can I say? They just love it.
  • Psychology: I go to college, and I honestly couldn't even give you a ballpark figure on how many women are psych majors. You don't have to be Seigmand Frued, but if you can hold an intellectual conversation with a women about psychology she'll love you forever. They don't even have to be a psych major, all girls love psychology, its what they DO. They are natural psychologists. Even if you don't use it to converse about, use it to your advantage, you'll be able to read social situations 100s of times better with even a basic understanding of psychological theories.
  • Politics: Again, you'd be surprised how many women are Political Science majors. Myself, I love politics, some people hate it. But if you can converse or even school a girl on the current political disaster we call our government. She will find you attractive.
  • Philosophy: It will open your mind in more ways than you can imagine in turn making you a more intelligent being.
  • Warning: Some people get very heated while engaged in political debates, never loose your cool because you'll just look like a jackass.

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on 11/7/2008 This stuff is so true!! My daughter read it, and now feels validated since she's been trying to tell her boyfriend some of this stuff.

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on 10/7/2008 great article and I agree. In high school I was a dork, but in my junior year I figured out a lot of what you wrote and found myself getting looks from girls, and even had a girlfriend.

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on 9/12/2008 This article has opened my eyes so to say...i have got to know facts that i thought were a myth!...will definately work upon it...thankyou...

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